this guy didn’t wait until after his divorce to find someone. But also: when looking for a partner, it helps to be secure in singleness first <3

I had a guy dump me and then was engaged 3 WEEKS later. He swore up, down and sideways that there was no overlap.

Well, in the event this guy is the type you’re looking for I’m guessing he might be back on the market soon.

The announcement is weird as hell, but I’m not surprised that he rewrote history to claim their divorce was totally amicable. I had a guy dump me after years of a long-term relationship, only to later claim that I dumped him, in what I (for various reasons) truly believe to be pure sincerity. We’re friends now, the…

there was a speech she gave and she was just gushing about beyonce, all sincere fangirling. so for me, this is cringe worthy but i’m okay with her being nerdy yikes inducing. she’s allowed. theres a difference between her actions and say katy perry or the kardashians. so im not as bothered by this

Adele should totally trust the perspective of a white American woman on UK-Jamaican relations.

It’s wrong that black women are discriminated against because of their hairstyles.

That’s not Adele’s fault.

Be mad at the discriminators.

The moment he leaves office, we found out what Putin has over him. This is life or death for him. His legacy will be that he was a phony and a liar all along. He has to stay in power in order to stay out of jail. If that means fomenting another civil war, so be it.

Right on. He sicced his white supremacist thugs on these cities precisely to whip up senseless violence. The end game is to use bad actors on both sides as evidence the left is violent too. As Kellyanne Conway confessed they think this is good for them. What happened in Portland last night is their wet dream. They are…

The thing is Trump isn’t encouraging civil war. At least not on an ideological level. No, that would take some actual strategy, which we know he has no capability for. This is worse. He doesn’t care about any of this. His only interest is in staying in the WH. Doesn’t matter who gets hurt or killed. It only matters…

Wasn’t designed for sex work and doesn’t protect sex workers. The changes are to protect OnlyFans bottom line, which hey, that’s true of any business.

She was using the site for the purpose it was designed for, “stars” to sell exclusive content to fans who’ll pay.

Yeah, she wasn’t there for research or to destigmatize anything. She was there to make a quick buck without doing anything “shameful” like selling nudity—really dropping the ball on the whole “destigmatize” part, huh?

I mean, it sounds like this Thorne woman (whoever she is) is making it all up as she goes along in a very egotistical way which is one thing but the tidal wave of complaints about her being the one to ruin sex work on OnlyFans is laughable.

I know I’ve just written a bit of a story on my experience last night with universal healthcare, but here’s another little one related to UH. We have gov subsidised medications including PrEp where it costs between AU$20-$41 per month (US$14.73-$30.94), and if you have a concession card/low income card it’s AU$6.60 (US…

PrEP stands for “pre-exposure prophylaxis” and refers to the regimen of taking a daily pill to minimize your risk of HIV transmission—though colloquially PrEP = the generic name for the drug itself. Truvada’s just a brand-name for one of the two FDA-approved forms of PrEP available, like how Advil’s a brand-name…

Gilead did shit for PREP we paid for it. It’s a Govt patent. Fuck Gilead in the ass without lube protection or prep with a chainsaw.

It’s always nice when everyone is included or feels included. I just always thought the term was to distinguish between the who they prefer to have anal sex with and that they prefer it be with a strap-on (especially since a gay man, Dan Savage, came up with the term). Women and men were asking him what to call this…

[eyeroll] “Pegging” requires a “peg,” AKA strap-on.  It’s a useful word.  If you’re too precious to use the word, fine, it’s hardly the worst pretentious quirk out there, but you could at least have made a separate essay on the topic so people would only click if they were in the mood for purple prose.

I hate everything about this. This kid. What he did. His inability to take any responsibility for it. The fact that the longer this plays out in public the worse it’s going to be for his victims. The people who are gassing him up as some sort of populist left hero because it gives them another ax to grind against the…