I survived it, but the relationship is not the same. Essentially, I just focused more on myself and let him fuck up his life. It took him about six to nine months to hit bottom. Once he did, he was willing to work on improving the relationship and things got much, much better. I think the bottom line is whether you,…

And why not?

In my case....probably not. But it’s certainly worth a shot if you think somebody else might be able to get through to him. You said love is still there. Plus you have your children. Those are strong reasons to keep trying. But you gotta be realistic, too. You have to take care of yourself. A situation like this will…

I was that mid-life crisis guy. With some of his behaviors compounded by health issues.

I’d second the idea of not renovating but mostly it’s to keep your sanity. I have yet to see a reno where the owners were already on site not turn into a never ending annoyance and no matter how beautiful the ultimate results, they were too fed up with the place to keep it.

Already anticipating the day I come home and it’s burned down or had a tree fall through it.

So it’s looking like my marriage is ending. Any advice on how to not freak the fuck out thinking about sharing custody of our baby? He’s very little and a major problem was husband not stepping up and taking care of him while we were together. Honestly don’t think he was even capable while I was there to help. Any…

Do you have oil heat? If so I pray for you

Been a homeowner for a month. I did now know it was even possible to spend this much money this fast.

Reply to HeWhoKnows (nothing): a quick google search will substantiate that Kaep has done and is doing exactly what you have mentioned. What have YOU done except offer shitty advice and nothing else. Go sit your $5 ass down before someone makes change. You stupid ass

Rapist Outs Self At Public Gathering For Free Press

This is respect from one Queen to another. 

I’ve seen people lash out at a third party for sleeping with their partner even with open/polyamorous relationship agreements in place. It’s because they feel threatened. Their insecurities are triggered and/or there’s a feeling of scarcity in the relationship. Most of the time, these issues are present and felt…

There was absolutely nothing wrong in my comment, body issues or not.

Serena could have kept it moving and not say anything or ride the fence.

I truly believe that possibly the only reason Sessions is still AG is that he knows way too many details about Russian shenanigans (and can prove them) and he’s indicated to Trump that, if fired, he will immediately cut a deal with Mueller for immunity and proceed to spill everything.

My guy is about to be the highest paid football player this year because at least half of the country are a bunch of racists. They know he isn’t protesting the flag, the anthem, or the military...they know good and fucking well what the reason was, that’s why they react the way they do.

Venus is the perfect big sister in a lot of way. She blazed a trail for her little sister to follow and is proud as fuck that her little sister surpassed her (despite still being jealous). I love their relationship.

I remember seeing that years ago! I feel some kind of way when I hear commentators/players who were terrible to them back in the day trying to backtrack now. Richard Williams did what he had to do and I’ve always respected him for that.

See also: “Some White People are killed by police too, it’s not a race issue.”