A lot of people keep going because it’s what they’re use to. That happens to everyone. Some dramatic life event has to happen to make them realize they can just stop.

Not really. He said he tries to avoid being alone with any woman. That means ANY. A doctor, a professor, a cashier, etc. I presume he means he wants to avoid being alone with women who he could be or could believed to have a sexual interest in, but that makes it worse. He’s clearly extremely insecure about his image…

Misogynists and incels began using ‘female’ as opposed to ‘woman’ to dehumanize women and imply that they are property without rights. Many refuse to use the term ‘woman.’ Incels do it often. Guys who see women solely as sexual objects do it as well.

But black people don’t only use their slurs with and around each other. We sell them to white people and get angry when they use it. White people were the primary purchasers of OUR music for at least 10 years and every popular artists who made money didn’t care enough to stop using the word in their music when they…

He’s only saying what Obama said (before he ran and won and decided respectability politics would get him what he wanted). Obama was a good guy, ok president. There are many areas where future presidents and politicians could improve on his record because he was far from perfect (and I voted for him twice).

I don’t get the Hubert love. From all accounts, she was toxic to work with, thought she was the star of the show, and has shown her ass for the last 20-something when talking about it. We don’t need to uphold toxic people because we liked their acting. Also, she seems to only meet with Will Smith in the reunion,…

That depends on how you define “both sides.” Modern media outlets tend to give the actions and POV of “both sides” the same weight/same blame, but that’s not objectivity. It’s neutrality and it distorts how we perceive/receive information because it normalizes false equivalence.

It’s not really about that. Trump being removed from office, however that happens, would save and help so many more people than the bad karma one person might incur for wishing it. So, I’ll take one for the team.

Having drugs in your system is not the same as being high. Trace amounts of drugs can stay in your system for weeks after they’re taken. Maybe look up how biology works next time.

SSDs die from repeated saving/deleting of files. So, deleting games on the SSD to save games to the SSD from a normal external drive might not be the best thing to do for the life of the console.

The thing neither Sony or XBox has said is that SSDs die from repeated saving/deleting of files. They aren’t like normal hard drives. So, deleting games on the SSD to save games to the SSD from a normal external drive might not be the best thing to do for the life of the console.

Let’s be real. Obama was very much into respectability/civility politics, believing if he was polite and reasonable they would be too. He certainly wasn’t a saint. When they obstructed him, he did little more than complain. if it were the other way around, the GOP would’ve have made revenge a part of every…

He did have a choice though. He could’ve taken the case to the Supreme Court to rule whether the senate can just not do it’s job. He didn’t even try. He didn’t make an issue of it in legislation. He complained, then he gave up. This isn’t to say he would’ve been successful, but he almost immediately gave up and made…

That’s always been odd to me. The brown in Italian skin still comes from melanin, but Italians and the world at large generally treat them like their browness doesn’t count and they’re still white. They probably haven’t experienced racism that a person society sees as black or brown has, but why society treats them as …

It’s always nice when everyone is included or feels included. I just always thought the term was to distinguish between the who they prefer to have anal sex with and that they prefer it be with a strap-on (especially since a gay man, Dan Savage, came up with the term). Women and men were asking him what to call this…

Linguistics nerd here. I thought it was for cis men interested in anal sex with cis women. If an all-encompassing term was used, it can no longer be reliably used to describe this specific thing. ‘Pegging’ isn’t just focused on the act itself, but which gender performing the act and who it’s being performed upon. Cis…

His point was that Arthur should either be aware of racism or naive to it, but the game depicts him as both and the world at large is equally inconsistent in it’s portrayal of racism of the time.

That’s fair. However, I should be clear that I don’t mean she needs decades of research to support her point, but she should at least know more about those rappers than a single data point (that their wives are light-skinned) to support the point that they may be colorist.

If she wants to make her point strongly and drama-free, she wouldn’t make it glibly or imply that light-skinned women count less. I mean I’m a light-skinned black man and have often heard that same type of langauge from other black people directed at me. Now I’m smart enough to know and understand that how I’m treated…

It is an example of that. I’m black and categorizing every relationship decision or attraction as colorism is silly because it either frames those choices as active and purposeful or it claims that one relationship with a light-skinned woman equals colorism despite all else. Moody’s implication is that these men were…