Is this an American thing because every single wedding I’ve been to in the UK has been a cash bar?

Wow...what horrible people. I’m sorry you had to experience that. Glad to hear your Gran is able to get away from them.

I feel like I could do this on a part time basis. Would anyone like to job share??

Many thanks for all your kind words. Faffing about on sites like this is proving to be a valuable distraction aid when I’m not running around trying to organise a funeral and my mum’s estate and trying to prevent WW3 from breaking out.

Well this is embarrassingly early, I’m sadly burying my mum next week so you never know what will happen...there’s already at least one shitstorm brewing.

They are a thing of beauty!

Just something for you to consider from a former social worker. Here in the UK we tend to recommend that any adoptive children are younger than the ones that you already have. Most older children up for adoption will have substantial need for emotional/psychological support (and some lower quality social workers may…

I would like to be on Daniel’s island...

Whilst I don’t claim to know much about Napa (I’m English) I do know there’s still plenty of racists in every so called liberal area. Plus I would have thought there’s a good chance people going on this excursion would be tourists.

Sorry I meant to reply to Laurelli920

I understand your point but I believe that if the group had been white then nothing to this extent would have happened. The complainant would have probably thrown a few dirty looks their way and tutted a lot and that would have been it.

Yep we’re all miserable fuckers and Downton Abbey and every chronic Danny Dyer movie is actually a documentary. It’s a good job you have a cute hedgehog in your avi...

* side-eye*

I have given you a star for being She-Ra :)

Don’t you be bringing any of those over here. First they’ll bring their kids, then their whole damn family, stealing all the jobs, wimmenz and beer!!

What? You don’t even like ‘Paradise’? But they’re dressed up as elephants in the video :(

Like where? Everywhere i go from September onwards is usually decked out to the hills. I’ve lived in places with high Sikh/Hindu/Muslim populations and they’ve had tons of decorations.

That’s not irrational. No sane human being would ever thing the words 10 yr old and mother should belong together.

This man is evil and should be kept away from all vulnerable people. If I had a kid, he would not be allowed anywhere near them.

But are you a COMMITTED lesbian?? There’s a difference you know...apparently.