First, I agree with those who say that your “friend” isn’t worth your time. I know it’s hard to just walk away from someone you’ve known for a long time, but I think you probably need to at least fade out.

You have been and continue to be willfully ignorant. Educate yourself. Read a little. Women and girls are blamed for being raped every. single. fucking. day. In your screed about teaching your son about how to be careful (which you must unfortunately do, I understand that), and in all of your other messages, you…

My husband and I both kept our last names. We gave our daughter his last name, and our son my last name. I love this solution. People sometimes say, but the kids have different last names, how horrrrible for them! And I say, poo. They are fully aware that they’re siblings.