Here you go: "Katy Perry wears inappropriate and racist 'Asian' outfit, forgets about privilege. But at least she didn't paint her face yellow."

Almost.

I keep waiting for Jake to do something, and the poor guy is just hanging around like a dork. I feel like he's just tossing a line or two per episode and standing around drinking coffee and looking hot. There's not anything really happening between him and Olivia, and his contributions to the team are already pretty…

Honestly, it is really hard to tell what she actually looks like with bleached brows because she keeps sticking her tongue all over the place.

Pfft, forget Kelly O., her 'brow rival Tony Goldwyn is doing it right now:

I know that pretty much all of these are enhanced with eyebrow pencil/powder, but damn if I don't think they're great anyway.

Well, I wouldn't blame yourself. It went wrong when they decided to tell you a deeply embarrassing story - what should be a source of family shame - as a "joke," not because you were subjected to it. You're the victim here, but I totally agree that you don't have to put up with it in the future.

In any case, I'm sorry that happened to you. I just don't get that shit at all.

"Haha, you know what's funny, people closely related to me think that you are inherently inferior! Don't you think that's hilarious?"

Same. Everyone - men and women - have sex for different reasons, which is fine. But orgasm is definitely the goal for me. I'm disappointed if I don't have one, which is part of the reason why I never bothered with sex outside of a relationship.

Oh God, someone told you a story like that and thought it would be funny? You don't relate those stories (to anyone!), you never speak of them again, except to tell any impressionable people (children) who might have heard it how bad and inappropriate it was and we don't believe that.

I felt this way about Margaret Atwood's Oryx and Crake. Such a good book, but sometimes so disturbing I had a hard time reading.

I once watched a documentary on Netflix about life after porn. It was incredibly depressing, especially for the women. The only woman who seemed happy was the one woman who got into porn because she wanted to, and not because she was slowly coerced or had a background of family problems, self image issues, and/or…

I don't think he meant that racism is actually in the past, but that we have a word for it that demarcates a time where "racist" went from "normal" to "unacceptable" as a concept.

You're completely right. In 1970 when racial tension was supposedly much higher and New York a more dangerous place, my mother - a white woman - was visiting the city for the first time alone. She was from the country and had no idea where she was going and got off at the wrong stop, which happened to be in the middle…

I think I live in a bubble, because I don't feel the way you just described at all as a white woman. But stories like this and Trayvon Martin and the myriad of other stories about racially-motivated insanity always take me by surprise. They make me sick to my stomach. And they make me realize that I'm living in a…

Wow, you win today, my friend. You win today.

I agree. Let's not blame the victim here. It's not his fault that other people took advantage of him.

What the heck, that is so violating and wrong. I'm disappointed in Jezebel that the video was re-posted here. This creepy invasion of privacy is awful in the first place, it doesn't need to be spread around.

Agreed. Glass is just fine, no need to fancy up the water vessels.