What’s funny is that bisexual women with husbands ARE a marginal(ized), underrepresented part of the population. As are bisexual women with female partners. But the few media representations we get of bi women tend to be women making out with women for the male gaze. And we know that bi women have higher rates of…

It’s ‘we’re bi and you can’t sit with us.”

I like him, I do, but he’s given some questionable advice in the past. He told someone they didn’t need to tell a person they were having a one night stand with that they had herpes, which I found quite questionable for someone who does what he does.

It’s the only reason I clicked on the article. I don’t understand how anyone thought that hair should be on the cover of a magazine.

You can drop out any time you like, but you can never leave.

Have you seen some of his comments about larger people? Nah, he can be pretty damn cruel. 

I was gonna say, I guess her parents forgot to pay someone to complete her sorority application.

Does this mean she won’t be able to live on sorority ... row?

“Olivia Jade did not complete the membership process.”

All visibility is good visibility. All visibility makes it easier for the next person to come out. Policing people’s motives is inherently problematic. Please, pretty please, I beg from a place of no snark at all, please, evaluate whether snarking at this is a good thing.

This article reeks of gate-keeping. I guess because she’s conventionally attractive and married to a dude she’s not queer enough? Like what appears to be many people in the comments, this is kind of a sore spot for me.

I generally enjoy Dan Savage but he can be a dick. Sounds like this was one of those moments.

What’s up with that hair though?

“Kinrgy.”

What.. is this article? 

I get your point, and while I dont 100% agree with you (I think there is something revolutionary about this former Mormon coming out), this article is just very poorly written. Your comments about her relative safety in coming out is much more poignant then the half-snark above.

Are you upset she said she wasn’t straight within a heteronormative relationship? That she’s not queer enough?

I was really confused by this paragraph which isn’t well-written enough to convey either sarcasm or truth:

Exactly. I’m not a fan of Julianne Hough, but what she’s talking about rang true for me as a bi woman in a committed relationship with a man. The snarkiness of the article made me feel like shit and reminded me why I never tell people in my life (besides my boyfriend) that I’m bi.

Yeah like...why are we bagging on someone whose seemingly come out as bi or pan? Really confused here.