I might suggest noticing moments when she is being kind to others and praise or reward her for it, and be specific “That was really nice of you to share your toys with Suzy.” Same thing for standing up for herself, like “That was really good how you told people you wanted to do whatever, but didn’t yell about it and…

IT’S LITERALLY ON THE CHAIR YOU DUMB FUCK WE ARE USING AN ACTUAL VISUAL REFERENCE DO TRY TO KEEP THE FUCK UP OR DON’T FUCKING BOTHER SHOWING UP AT ALL.

i ordered 14 of these chairs for the jez office

I read the worst thing on Facebook the other day and I just really need to share, “This quote my client said to me always makes me tear up: ‘your daughter grows up and becomes a wife but, your son is your son for life.’” I FOREVER NOW MUST TYPE IN ANGER CAPS BECAUSE WHAT IS THIS? WHY? HOW CAN YOU EV? I JUST!!!!!!!!!!!!

I went to a 2 million dollar wedding, bride’s dress alone cost over $100k. She threw up down the front of it at the reception.

And yet it all still just looks like a wedding. The swag bags sound nice, though.

If I’m paying 31 million buckaroos for my wedding, it must include Idris Elba interrupting the proceedings, declaring his everlasting love for me and marrying me on the spot while David Bowie sings “Life on Mars.” For starters.

a ten-foot wedding cake shaped like a carousel that’s rumored to have taken a month to assemble.

Serious question: Why can’t the proprietor just ask the racist ass-clown to not return. “Sir, I’m sorry that our values and yours don’t match. I’m sure that another vendor would be more to your liking. Please have a nice day...” I get it—you depend on customers for your livelihood. But these people will never learn…

some coffee-based form of NDA

The "hot enough" thing drove me off the wall. People would come in and order their lattes at 190-200 degrees, MILK CURDLES AT 180 YOU NASTIES. Also, steaming it to much hotter than the typical "extra hot" setting makes the milk spit viciously and I'm not about to burn myself just so you can melt the lining of your…

You can refuse service based on behavior, you just can’t refuse service based on race or other intrinsic qualities. I don’t know how a court would react to this particular case, I mean an argument could be made that based on the (false) information she was providing the staff had reason to believe her life would be in…

Man nothing ruins an old racists day like being nice to someone. I work in a bakery in an area with a large middle eastern/indian population. Because of this, we have little displays for non-cracker ass holiday events like little eid al-fitr cakes and a nice spread for diwali. EVERYTIME while we get a slew of happy…

Carlin, Pryor, Chappelle, and all the other greatest comedians of the past all had bits/jokes that are/were racist/sexist/etc. But apparently, when a woman does it we have to constantly throw her under the bus that is non-stop internet rage.

Comedians aren’t allowed to just be funny any more? Carlin’s social commentary was frequently A+ #1, but I don’t remember so much stewing over what he didn’t say or any kind of comment about his clothes or hair.

It doesn’t help that my partner plays “Nothing Compares 2 U” every time we fuck.

a) You probably don’t ride. Believe me, there are plenty of places that are unsafe for a car to pass where it’s no problem for a bike (either due to the bike being able to do the pass or simply because of things like better sightlines due to lane positioning etc). So it comes down to The Law vs. common sense, being…

In a study, an animated injured dog model was placed just on the side of the road. Thinking they could get away with it, about 1% of drivers swerved to hit it.

The CPA in me chuckled at this.

The intent of my comment was not to engage in a pissing contest, but since you asked, I have donated my money to a friend’s fundraising page who is running in a 5k for the Leukemia & Lymphoma society in honor of my husband, who just recovered from non-Hodgkin’s lymphoma. I have donated my time to my local food bank,…