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The misogyny of many developing countries has definitely provided a ready supply of younger women who are willing to make major compromises to get that green card. I cannot blame any of these women, though I think it often turns out tougher for them than they anticipated. I personally know three older white men (one

But...nobody talked about YOUR specific dating life. And you’re 25, ffs! 

Nobody, it’s a stick-free environment!

My 65 year old father is married to a 25 year old. Before this he always dated relatively age appropriate (e.g. he was 60 dating a 45 year old) but honestly I think he found women his age too opinionated and demanding. He doesn’t want a partnership, he wants someone who listens to him, defers to him, looks up

And the older and wealthier he was the sooner you could be a financially independent widow. 

It isn’t condescending.  It is that we don’t think we have the emotional fortitude to handle it.  Most of us have no idea how to flirt or read people that we are attracted to anymore.  Most of us weren’t that good in the first place.  Plus, the older you get, the less tolerant you are of bullshit, and dating involves

When I was in my teens and early 20s, men in their late 40's & 50s hit on me and my friends all the time. They were so confident I would drop my panties, they didn’t even put in minimal effort ——they would just hand me their business card and walk away.

Men 100 years ago and men today STILL think that younger women have sincere sexual and romantic interests in older men. Yes, men really do believe that.

I think the problem is that men always want the “newest model.” 

I think you are unusual for a guy in your early 30's.  And frankly, if you’re a guy in your early 30's, your opinion isn’t that valuable.  Let’s see what you say in your late 30's.  Are you seriously going to say, “Women in their late 30's are objectively the most attractive.”?  I highly doubt it.  

To be fair, testicles are pretty gross at any age.

Oh, like they’re all pressed and smooth at any age. The bigger issue is the fact that I hear they migrate south like a Canadian goose as you get older.

The thing I do not get is that, like, do these peoples’s tastes not change with age? I mean, when I was a teenager I thought teenagers were objectively the hottest group . When I was in my mid-20s, I thought women in their mid-20s were objectively the hottest. Now that I’m in my early 30s, I think women in their early

Anytime i see a dude mention theyre interested in women “18 and older” i wonder if there werent legal structures in place, what that age really would be. Men have controlled so much in society, theyve actually tricked themselves into thinking 18yr old women with older men is a super common, normal occurrence and they

Works for Dane Cook’s teen girlfriend. (shudder.)

Ew.

Four words: Wrinkly old man testicles. Wrinkly. Old. Man. Testicles.

What we are witnessing is the last gasps of the angry white racists. This shall pass. 

I don’t think I’m understanding the tone of this article and I’m going to read it again, but this line was like a sucker punch - “What I want isn’t surgery; what I want is never to have needed surgery to begin with.” I wasn’t expecting it. So simple and poignant and yet I’ve never heard it phrased that way before.