the-jengineer
the-jengineer
the-jengineer

My first thought when I heard about the shooting was “country music festival...there must have been more than one good guy with a gun there to protect himself.”

You’re right. Being a victim of sexual harassment makes her exempt from criticism in all contexts.

She is directly referencing an incident SHE CRRATED and is AGAIN playing the victim. She was absolutely assaulted by that dj. She IS absolutely blaming other people for calling her out on her own bullshit on a totally separate event. One doesn’t cancel the other.

I mean, 28 isn’t *that* young.

She is playing the victim about valid criticisms about herself. None of those criticisms involve her assualt and almost all of them were made way before the assault even happened.

I think... I think we left comments about her on social media and she felt compelled to read all of them and now make a video addressing our opinions of her?

We are not required to like her. Why bring up beyonce, can we not defend women without bringing up other women.

The more you hear something the more you’ll like it.
Welcome to the Mere-exposure Effect! Woo! :D

This song doesn’t reference that though. This song references the Kayne song about which she definitely played the victim.

I don’t know why this whole thing she’s doing right now makes me full body cringe from second hand embarrassment. It’s just so tacky. At the end where she’s all ‘I want to be excluded from this narrative’ I outloud ‘Me too’. She’s definitely someone I would have just stopped answering the messages of irl.

She tires me ...

what did we make her do

So you’d just take it in your stride if someone ripped you off to the tune of $3K+? And you don’t consider it worthy of any public comment at all that this has happened to probably thousands of people across a chain of 61 stores? Look, my wedding dress was $150 and I think this shit is insane, but that’s some crazy

I got married last year and I can’t imagine how much I would be losing my shit.

The whole point is that these women paid for their dresses and now can’t get them, nor are they hearing anything from the company to which they gave $1k+. Thatz not okay! Regardless of how you feel about the Wedding Industrial Complex, as someone so eloquently put it upthread, having your money stolen from you and a

I didn’t get to have that party and you know what? I am really sorry we didn’t. I wish our families had come to wish us well and show their love for us. I wish I had professional pictures of us with our parents and grandparents, especially since our grandparents have since passed and my mom and his dad now have cancer

Do you also judge everyone who eats in nice restaurants? You can only eat that meal once and afterwards you don’t even have an item you can turn into something else like a christening gown or a quilt.

Reading your comments, I’m literally sure that’s true.

While I wouldn’t spend that kind of money on a dress, it’s really immaterial. A wedding is an experience just as many other things are experiences which you’d likely find valuable. Would you gasp that someone would spend hundreds or thousands on a hot air balloon ride AND pay for the overpriced champagne? What about

This. If you paid for something, it should be given to you. The perceived value to an outside party doesn’t matter.