Joined myfitnesspal, started counting calories in serious and weight lifting 3x a week, cardio once a week. The tools on the site are great (calorie counter), and the tone of their forums is so cranky/snarky. I realized that it's cause everyone on that damn website is hungry. So don't take it personally.

I like the one from Tahari a lot and most of the other ones. Honestly, you have to have quite an active imagination to think "VULVA" at the site of these (except for the last blazer).

I traveled to Seattle on my own when I was feeling down and out about being single a few years ago. It was so liberating. I loved not having to consult with anyone about what to do/where to go. The world was mine!

That's a good one. But I'd be afraid it encourage them to come up with something clever when I usually have no need to talk with them.

Yeah, that's a good rule of thumb too. When I was single, I'd always make a point to make eye contact if the guy was a stranger and I wanted to let him know to holler over.

Even if he's completely reformed, it's just distasteful/insensitive to go on a show like this (and for the show runners to have come up with the idea). I can buy into giving him a second chance on a "society wide" level, but there are just some things a convicted rapist ought to give up even if they're reformed. Stuff…

Exactly. Don't say anything on Facebook you'd be embarrassed to have repeated in public later. It's a basic life lesson in this day and age. Even if your profile is private, if someone who is a friend of a friend takes interest in your post and takes a screen cap, that could be forwarded on to someone else and so on.

I dislike suits with shorts or whatever she's wearing (?), but I'll wear horizonal/nautical stuff whether or not it's in style. I enjoy pretending I have the money to be on a boat when my best most of transport is the slimy metro.

The Florida Keys! Key West is expensive-ish to stay, but Key West has lots of little islands that are cheaper.

You can find a time turner key chain and necklace online. Don't actually turn time but I loved mine before I broke it : /

We are all special snowflakes...some people can have sex in an uncomfortable/embarrassing way with someone who they don't have a true connection with (or who they don't even like, but the guy is totally hot), and other women fall to pieces if the guy they thought liked them doesn't pick up their calls after having sex…

IMO that feels like giving up though...I kind of need the motivation of weight loss to get my ass exercising since I hate it so much. 120 has always been my "maintenance weight" so at 127 all my clothes don't fit anymore and don't have the inclination to buy all new stuff :/

I use the old "can I fit into my 'skinny' jeans?" measurement. I haven't been able to fit into the pants I wore when I was a size 2-4 in about a year. Since muscle is supposed to take up less "room" then fat, there's got to be some other problem.

I like vegetables but the thought of ONLY eating veggies and not allowing myself a sandwich or something is depressing to me. I could do a combo of veggies and some carbs, but it seems like a lot of the carb free diets expect you to severely restrict carbs the first month or so.

I've had a suspicion that I have thyroid issues. My grandmother has thyroid problem (the kind that makes you cold all the time). I have the coldness, brittle nails, and brittle hair, plus lots of difficulty losing weight.

That is dangerous. They should have said "catch" and tossed it to him or something.

Getting an erection is natural. Rubbing your erection on a woman without her consent or grabbing her ass is what's creepy.

IMO if you are going to splurge on any aspect of the wedding, splurge on the food. Any wedding I've been to, if the food sucks, that sort of takes away from the whole experience. I would argue it's more important then whether or not you have a cash bar/whether or not you have nice flowers etc.

I took the stance of "we're in no rush" when people started asking about "when is he going to propose" after the first year and a half that I was dating my boyfriend. I was totally casual about it and he proposed in 2 years.

Well, it's easier to lie to myself then to consider the worst-case scenario alternative, which is that he's not attracted to me sexually and would prefer to masturbate over having sex with me. I'm pretty much always up for sex. Hell, if I have my fracking period he's still getting a blow job that week. I'm really not…