But I don't care and I don't have to.

Glad to know I'm not the only one who got really bothered over it. I probably was insane about it for a good month or so. It took a while to mentally move past it. And yeah, the fact that the women on screen are tiny as hell except for their enormous breasts doesn't make me feel too hot either. Worse is when he goes…

I don't think he has an addiction, or that he takes it overboard. When he did this, we had just moved in together and now we've been living together over a year. It may be that he didn't know his boundaries/my boundaries, and maybe he thought it was okay. He was able to stop doing this (as far as I know).

That's interesting. I forget that guys may be different in that they may feel like porn goes hand in hand with masturbating (ha, a pun). I do masturbate when he's not around, but the porn aspect isn't necessary for me, though I may think about a time when we had sex or something.

No, cause cooking isn't really sexual in nature. The dancing thing...well, he never dances if he could avoid it so that would never come up.

I have no problem when my man and I watch porn together, or if he watches it when I'm not home/out of town/otherwise unavailable. But one night I caught him watching porn then jerking off when he thought I was asleep. He hadn't initiated sex with me that night. It spun me into a lot of insecurity. It wasn't really his…

I agree, don't see the need for the hate. When Katie Couric was still on the Today show (after she left, I stopped watching), Curry was a great, more serious balance to Couric's perkier personality. If anyone killed the Today show it was Meridith Viera, who just irked the crap out of me.

Lemme guess. They will not be able to find a single damn educated, cultured extrovert who is a minority in the whole damn city, right? I'm annoyed with them in advance.

It's cause no introvert is dumb enough to be on this show.

Was in the same situation as you, but had a real job at 22. It was about 2 years or so before I had all the kitchen stuff I needed (no marriage included). You'll get there once you hopefully get a job! (and, ok, I'll concede the job market was better in 2007).

I do that too. It's the introvert in me! But when I look someone in the eyes, sometimes my confidence or train of thought will be lost. It may be something to do with being a generally quiet person so when someone is looking (in my mind, staring) when I speak it just gets uncomfortable. Have to practice actually doing…

Worse, it was something like "transform yourself into a sexy geek" or some nonsense. By...taking a star wars shirt, cutting off have of it to expose your midriff and wearing oversized black frames? Or whatever they were selling?

That's right. Let them come to YOU. :D

She looks pretty. Sometimes J-Lo appears to try to hard to play into that "sexxy latina" stereotype.

Maybe she was feeling a lot of pressure to come out but chickened out at the last minute? My thought was that she meant to say she was gay, then got shy about it and went on rambling instead. Which confused me because I like some others already knew she was gay...even though she gave the same vague answers in the past.

The topic of this show is "Girls." Specifically, young women living in NYC in this generation having jobs and sex. A women of color could fit into the storyline easily.

I'm not sure who Nick Hoult is (and am too lazy to google especially since they've already broken up), but I was squicked out at the possibility of Jennifer and Brad Cooper getting together. Don't know if he just did a really good job during "The Wedding Crashers" of playing a smarmy douche or if that's just who he…

Yeah, as I remember the show, Carrie moved to NYC when she was in her early 20s (I remember Stanford saying something about spotting her wearing Candies or something like that). I think in this show she's living there in her teens?

So if you're going with another person who is gay, just cause they want to go, is that okay? Judging by those standards, it's not. If my friend who is gay wants to go/invites me to go with him, I don't see why we are "taking up space" or whatever. In that scenario, I'm there to party with him in the place where he…

So due to financial issues, my fiance and I are legally married as of a week ago, but our ceremony (with the family etc.) won't take place till later in the year. My parents know about this. His parents know. But we aren't planning on letting everyone attending the wedding know the deal.