Yeah its not just friends but family members as well, so I find solace online mainly. I’ve had guy friends before who were funny and all those things, its just in the past few years since the whole mra thing blew up online, its been devastating to see them liking mra related things on social media. And word for word…

That makes sense. Good on him though. The only men i’ve seen who kind of get it are the ones who’ve experienced some sort of -ism themselves. Gosh it just makes me so paranoid around most of them. Honestly, i can say i dont have a single man in my life at the moment that I don’t feel wary around.

Fair enough then I guess. I hope it works for you.

Do they ever explain why it is that men hate women so much? I can’t think of any decent reason for this level of hate. Not ego, not arrogance, not an inferiority complex, nothing makes sense for this level of hate.

I don’t think anyone can prepare us though, for how much they hate us. It has to be lived. I know it deep down, the hate men have for women, butI keep hoping for better.

Not victims, i reckon you break your partners trust then you get whats coming at you.

I think it cheating should actually be criminal especially if you’ve signed a contract aka Marriage. You have literally signed a legal contract in the case of most marriages and breach of that should end with criminal charges. Enough of this cheating is just non criminal social act. Its ridiculous.

I wish all people got this. I am SO done with men (and some women), who think its not a rape unless the victim is the “perfect victim”. That’s not how we humans work. Even after and through most horrific circumstances we just keep going onwards. I’ll never get over how hateful and suspicious men are towards women,…

A lot of my family has quitened down about it in front of me cause they saw i was getting depressed and just giving up on life by hearing this stuff all the time. Its just that i know its still there deep down, and i live with anxiety now knowing when i might have to confront it again. But how do you deal with the…

Reading this made me so happy. Cheers for the feel good story of today. Well this and the deaf dog coming home :)

I still don’t understand how you stay with him. Because i have some family members i’ve known my entire life and our dynamic is as you describe with your partner, but im going to be off as soon as i can get out. Being around that to me blocks my creativity, my ability to feel really good about life and just feeling…

Im 25 and i feel the same, im glad to know its not just me but basically everyone from our generation. I remember the hope of the Clinton times as well even though I wasn’t in America. I just feel like 9/11 was some sort of turning point, it was all going well and then that event created a different world around us.…

I dont have anything to add, other than thank you for starting this thread. Discussions like this, as found in the comments below, go a long way at placating me than anythign else we talk about. I agree that all we can really do is the best we can do, as vague as that is.

If nothing else its so important to highlight that we still have far to go. No culture or society on this planet has achieved what i believe to be the potential of what we can as humans, so we have to keep moving forward and keeping talking about these things. So thanks for this post.

*shakes head sadly. Its always been men, killing us, torturing us, abusing us, making excuses for other men. And too many women turn a blind eye to it. None of the so called good guys given a damn either. Until we get literally every woman rising up, i dont see how it can be changed.

Ugh ladies i have to ask as someone who’s never been in a realtionship, after reading some of the comments on here from men, how the hell do you even do relationships. There’s just a mentality of at least ims tronger than you na na na na na. Like i dont understand how literally billions of women put up with that level…

Yeah not wanting to make this a minority vs women thing considering some of us fall into both, but how the hell do women get treated like a minority, we are actually the majority. You know there’s some seriosu shit going down whene even actual minorities get more than pure womens groups. And yeah it probably is cause…

Its men though, its always been men. They use racism and sexism to kill other men and other women. The vast majority of them are so fucking unstable its not a joke. Like its literally killing us. Islamaphobia, terrorism, bigotry, kids being abused everywhere in the world, animals, nature all being fucked over. Women…

“You have already grown up and you have not said that yet,” he said. “But you know, it takes time. In a few generations, your children and my great-grandchildren will say that....it is bound to happen.”

Yasssss, my man Oscar Issac finally getting some love. He is literally my favourite male actor in hollywood right not. I think he so underrated. From the first time i saw him as Poe Dameron I was done. He’s just the perfect misture of talented, intense, intelligent, easy going, its just all amazing.