File your argument as #1 for the premise,”men don’t think rape IS THAT BAD!”

Come on, of course any Oma’s ANYTHING is going to taste better than commercial stuff! But, Witches Brew is made locally and still delish on a rainy Tuesday night after work!

Except they weren’t collaborating, Ms. Chapman wasn’t in the room working, tweaking, etc and letting the lawyers work out the paperwork. Minaj clearly believes in the “It’s easier to beg forgiveness than seek permission” theory or those around her do. Not to mention that no one should claim they’re an artist if they…

See, that’s the kind of diverting crap that men do when it comes to discussing rape, driving it 5 degrees off topic and over time, you’re 90 miles away. He can launch whatever endeavors he wants. But what he can’t do is get revered and the accolades of respect by sitting up front, hoping that time diminishes our…

I think we’re all still in the defining stage of how to handle the accused with #MeToo. Personally, I think men should take a bigger role in managing the accused because women are tired, and tired of being called hysterics when we talk about incidents or our instincts! An anonymous letter to HR for refresher Sexual…

Jada’s always had a haughty disdain for others (she get it from her mama) that turned me off . She struck me as that littlest one in the gang talking the most crap in the most cutting way, just knowing you’d be dragged for cold-cocking her ‘cuz she’s so small’. Her feud with Gabrielle Union and others seems to bear…

Oh, I make note in public restrooms: 8 times out of 10, when 3 or more women are present, at least one white woman will exit a stall, flip her hair or touch-up her makeup in the mirror and walk right out without washing her hands! It is known.

“Ay yo, BooBoo! I got a plan to get us those pic-a nic baskets!”

For the wino in your life, see also Witches Brew-brand red wine with mulling spices (same as PSL) warmed and sipped by the fireplace!

The depravity of this story has haunted me for years and enraged me reading recent articles about him finding God, being a model prisoner and wanting to be in his son’s life. But the story also highlights misogyNOIR in so many ways. Rae didn’t even value Cherica Adams’ right to breathe enough to just distance himself…

Now you can tell by my everyday ‘fits I ain’t rich but does C.R.E.A.M. have to be the Big Joker in every debate with Black folk?! Can’t anybody stand for principles larger than oneself?! Everybody needs money! Everybody has a family to feed, if not just themselves. But have we learned NOTHING from the first…

I starred you because your analysis was not wrong about Hilary, Bill, Joe or Bernie’s weaknesses. But if you’re not sorry after watching the world over the past two years, you lack the kind of human empathy for crying migrant babies, scared asylum seekers, murdered & endangered journalists, people who remember Russia…

A late-50's white man asked me what Killmonger meant at the end of Black Panther. I said that he’d likened life in prison to be worse than death, similar to how some Africans jumped from slaveships to drown rather than be removed from their homelands and enslaved. Looking back and considering our continued trials, many…

Since morals, ethics, decency or a sense of humanity doesn’t move the needle for police interaction, someone should really look into how civil suits are paid then have that emphasized to the good (but silent in agreement) Republicans who are always MORE concerned with waste of their tax dollars than the safety of Black…

After trust establishment, student loan wipe out, hiring bad-ass Israeli bodyguards, world travel until it got boring. Diversity riders for 10% Black Male and 10% Black Female hires and paid interns for all my big shot attorneys, bankers, etc. (I need experts but support Black’s getting opptys!). Scholarships for C…

Whem you consider that rape and sexual assault are crimes of power, domination and control then consider jobs that entail those actions, it’s not incomprehensible that men with those tendencies would gravitate towards law enforcement careers. Add decreased likelihood of ever being held accountable? Include Blue Wall…

Y’all really gon’ ack’ like you don’t know BeBe?!

Which is why we have to be strategic with the Big Payback! Before you send your kids to the majority white school, you KNOW someone is gonna try it; hip ‘em up with the comebacks! Y’all forgot we invented the dozens? Write them down and memorize the technique of shutting someone down! That girl should have calmly looke…

Congratulations and Best Wishes for a long and happy life together! Please compliment your wife on that gorgeous black Hi-Lo engagement dress and an even prettier wedding dress!

Why, oh why is anyone listening to this jailbird sing?!