This is just stupid. We don’t need to be “careful”. We just need to not rape or sexually harass the women we work with. What kind of idiot needs to be careful not to do those things? STFU and get back to work. What utter nonsense.

“You don’t get to whine about being called out. It’s what we do. Join a cult if you’d rather have rules of silence and obedience.”

Here they are

Why cancel the office party? Just don’t invite the creeps. We all know who they are. Hey men: if you’re feeling confused, there are two really good essays you should read. One was recently written by Anthony Bourdain (tells you how to be a real man) The other one (can’t remember the author) was called The Decent Human…

Jeez. Imagine living in that perpetual state of anxious fear that something might happen to you. Those poor, poor men.

well of course men would figure out a way to blame this all on women. Women are the ruiners of fun.

A: I can’t believe ‘boozy after work events’ are still a thing. My company stopped doing that in the late ‘80s.

Why are they punishing women by having lame ass parties for fear that guys can’t have more than one drink and behave themselves? WOMEN DO IT ALL THE TIME. Getting wasted on the company dime is a year end tradition that should not end! MAKE AMERICA DRUNK AGAIN

“.. Is my workplace weird or something?”

How are some companies coping with freely-discoursing women? For one, “game zones” are reportedly supplanting open bars

Oh NO! you mean men like me now have to actually think about what they’re doing and the impact of it on other people? THAT IS NOT RIGHT, YO! /s

The indignity of having to analyze every social interaction like some woman!

Uha. Apparently it’s “dangerous” to be a man, now.

Men, you’ll get used to policing your every move and living in fear of “false” accounts of sexual harassment. After all, women have learned to live with policing their every move to “avoid” sexual harassment, assault and rape. Welcome to our world. Don’t like it? Cry us a fucking river.

My company seemed to be working towards canceling/neutering our holiday party starting last year. A bunch of people made the minimum appearance and then arranged for a bunch of taxis and ubers to continue the party at a local watering hole. Much more fun than fruit juice in the punch bowl and grocery store crudite.

When serial sexual harassers (and, shit, let’s toss in racists, neo-nazis, and holy-rolling bigots while we’re at it) have to be constantly looking over their shoulders, scared shitless that the people around them might find out and of what might happen, to the degree that sexual minorities have had to, I think we as…

It’s the same goddamn NYT writer every time: Nelly Bowles. She’s a female MRA and she’s bullshit.

Can I say... for years and years I have been friends with men. When I say, I keep an extra eye out all the time for threats, they think I’m being paranoid. I’ve kept keys between my fingers, I’ve hidden underneath oversized sweatshirts to present as masculine, I’ve gone in groups with other women to the bathroom...…

good, except in the sense that the implication is that there are whole swathes of men that aren’t cognizant enough of their own actions to know that there is a neutral setting in-between “inappropriate” and “cautious”

Insert Grumpy Cat “GOOD” gif.