Sending good thoughts your way, too. This is a really hard thing for many of us to witness.

Bradley Cooper. I don’t have any reason for this at all. I just see his face and his Crest Whitestrips smile and I just... nope.

Oh my god, this made me laugh SO hard.

Baaaaaahahahahaha! My little sister did the same thing just days before my aunt’s wedding. The wedding photos are amazing- my mom gave her this weird combover from one ear to the other to try to hide the little spikes of hair above her forehead.

I would wear the shit out of this today! What a cute pic!

Ahhhhh this story made me laugh so hard! Thank you- really needed the laugh! Also the jacket really is “bitchen”.

Oh my god. One thousand facepalms! I can’t even imagine the shit you dealt with doing that job.

It really is awful. I guess I forget that not everyone views marriage/parenthood/family/etc as a serious thing where you’re concerned about the well-being of others. These sick bastards just see everything as an opportunity for them to exercise their power and control. I hate everything.

Yeah, that makes sense. Ugh.

Fair point. This was for a crew position that will never be anywhere near a camera.

It’s so frustrating! They just can’t imagine what that would feel like to hear that as an employee or a vendor. It’s exhausting and so uncomfortable to have to explain to the people in charge of hiring and firing that it’s gross and minimizing to see women evaluated by their appearances. I’m really sorry you had to…

In theory it becomes a lot more just and fair, except for the fact that we have gatekeepers like Kavanaugh and Chua making sure that certain kinds of people rise to the top. But in a fair world, everyone would have access to the same kinds of education and opportunities, and everyone would be evaluated only on their…

Fuck. You’re right. Ugh.

Yep. This is so gross. I got into a huge argument with my two (male) supervisors at a job I had in a male-dominated industry after hearing one of them recommend a candidate to the other, throwing in, “she’s really cute” with a list of other qualifications. I asked them what that had to do with anything, and it…

Sadly he’s the money behind the magazine so he’s pretty much un-fire-able.

And “a better father”!!! What the fuck?! Why do people who don’t see women as fully human get married and have kids? Sickening.

Like, you can always just say nothing! I also just don’t understand the idea that because YOU like someone, they can’t possibly have done something wrong. I mean... what?! Is it arrogance? A need to feel that your own judgment is so impeccable that you couldn’t possibly have liked someone capable of doing something…

Yes. All of this. Predators are the “cool” history teacher, your dad’s best friend, the trusted priest, the fun young coach. They’re often trusted, liked, and defended even after serious allegations surface. And predators can’t function successfully without the chorus of defenders that jump up to discredit victims. I…

Yeah, she’s super problematic. I’m glad I didn’t have to choose between her and Dilan because they’re both troubling. I agree with Salazar’s policy positions, but she hasn’t represented herself with any truthfulness or integrity and the fraud allegation that came out is really worrisome. Politics are so frustrating! I…