Any movement with it's roots in victimhood and resentment is sick at it's core..from the Tea party to the MRA guys. Fanaticism is always crazy and unbalanced.

Oh Lane, so very sorry for your loss. I loved that guy ,but didn't see enough of him, so thank you for all the links to his material.

Poor lil' gal..that's so tough.. to go through such traumatic surgery and rush right back to work as she has.

I think that here is where taking care of yourself comes into play. One thing you have no control over is his situation and state of mind..you can only control your own life..and sometimes even that is dicey!

Rejection is God's protection! :)

I think you can probably take the light therapy off your list..you may be the only people in the world who get enough light! Yay!

Aw honey..I feel for you and so many of us have been there. My heart goes out to you.

Oh oh!! If your are recovering from an injury ,I really recommend the Fluidity workout. It will kick your ass six ways to Sunday but you can't hurt yourself in any way.

I hope you have a long and happy marriage! I've been married 32 years and when you marry your best friend, it rocks. Congratulations!!!

I has a sad about Katy and Russell...I loved his book and was really impressed by the work he's done on himself in recovery for both drugs and sex addiction.

No, it's not AND it ages you faster and makes you gain unwanted weight. You don't heal as well when you are sleep deprived, either.

Nah, I don't anymore. I'm nearly 60 and I no longer give much of a fuck.

What a lovely child. This reminds me of Brooke Shields when she was a young model. The photos were very similar,but at that time we weren't as aware of pedophiles and the media published even more provocative stuff..at least when viewed through the eyes of someone with a problem.

Thanks to both of you...I'm still thrilled about it!

I usually convinced myself that it would be different by noon each day,and was hovering over my bottle promptly at 4pm (self-employed people start earlier)!

Oh, hearted! My Stepfather was one of two people who conceived of and built the first Formula Super-Vee prototype ( John Zeitler). He was an ARRC champion ,and was on the cover of Road and Track (or maybe Car and Driver..can't recall).. I was raised on open-wheeled formula car road-racing and grew up at tracks around…

Clearly he had his Mommy write the later tweets, since he can't even tell the difference between 'your' and 'your'e'.

My nemesis during my drinking years was my LACK of hangovers. I think I had maybe 3 or 4 in my whole life and those were in college, before I became professional/alcoholic. I rarely drank back then and didn't start in earnest til I was 40.

I LOVE E. Jean, and I've read Elle for years, just for her column.

What they are saying is that alcoholics in general do badly with delayed gratification and tend to be short sighted and not think things through.