It’s also nice to know when your end date is for doing non fun lucrative work. We are saving a lot right now and hopefully hub will be able to switch from what makes the money to what he likes to do or finds more fun. (Or keep doing lucrative but switch it to part time or take on short contracts and have the rest of…

I’ve learned to be pretty good about not using power out in LA because that bill can get scary especially since it’s every other month. And I used to live in Florida where it could also get scary when you used too much AC. I’ve been living in the valley for the past two or so years without AC and I’m getting better…

It’s super close to Tallahassee so it’s basically Florida. Atlanta is like 3 (wirh traffic probably 4) hours north.

Where I’m moving I found 1500 sq ft houses for as low as $50k to buy. Most are around $130k.

This reminds me of how happy I am to be moving from LA to GA (basically FL) in the next few weeks. If we don’t end up buying a house we can rent a house for what we are paying now or even less. (Still really want a house.)

The smart ass answer is they don't.

Other than the one where figuring out when shop talk stops those are just normal issues couples who work face. Not everyone has a long commute and many times they’re on the phone with each other anyway (least I am), and unless you directly work with them work time is sufficient away from spouse time. Me time doesn’t…

Didn't know this was even a possible option. Student loans still suck but this makes it a little less sucky.

For me both seem to be about the same frequency on average. I do know that if it starts getting to be regularly more than my allotted special occasion amount that I need to tone it down. But I doubt that will be an issue since I don’t see friends that frequently.

It’s also not just about spending for us but about…

I’m kinda in my own version of total chaos but it’s a good kind. Well, it’s the kind where the payoff is super good. I’m trying to just get certain things done as fast as possible and hope for the best. I kinda wasted time yesterday (when I found out) but still pulled through with my workout, vet visit from hell (not…

Or you could do both. Doing one doesn’t mean you can’t also do the other. In fact doing what you do will be supported and further reiterated by the books as well.

Even as an adult I need multiple hits from preferably a variety of sources and mediums to really embrace and sink in new habits and ways of thinking. Not…

Perfect timing for me today. I am actually excited but man is it also making me super scared and just shy of being in super freakout land.

Matching. Stupid phone typing blows. And that’s not including when auto correct likes to “correct” and already correct word to somerhing it thinks I should say. Sigh.

Now it is. It was lower probably when she just starting out and that's pretax bucks. She could also mean maxing out her employers marching program.

Well I use my credit card because it’s convenient, gives me points, and gives me time to move some money over from my online savings account to pay the card balance in full.

Ah yes, good old FU money. It’s the best money ever.

In my hub’s industry they aren’t allowed to give references anymore. Something about not wanting to be held reliable (the company) if the new higher doesn't work out.

I'm beginning to believe that being able to do that is the difference between overall success and failure in anything you do. I also think that depression robs you of seeing that even a small choice in the right direction will make your life way better. It's like it makes you choose none of the above or the bad option…

For me learning that, no matter what, I had at the very least some control over my situation. Even back when it was awful (in that I had few options and my pay wasn’t enough to cover my apartment that I shared or my needs like keeping my car maintained or contacts/glasses etc). I could have made better choices in how…

It feels like that typical day isn't so typical anymore.