“I’m not sure why she gets a free pass on this site. She’s the lesser of two evils...”

Can someone please explain to me why many states are totally cool with Stand Your Ground laws/using deadly force to “prevent death or great bodily harm” but this little girl faces life in prison for shooting someone who repeatedly threatened to kill his entire family with that very gun?

‘I think the question then comes - well, the dude was drunk too, so did the woman rape the man as well? If being drunk is enough to say that consent is not valid, then are they raping each other?’