What movie are you talking about/

What was the eye cream? I was thinking of trying some of that stuff but I'm really wary because it's all so expensive, and I know the beauty magazines are in cahoots with the beauty companies that make the stuff... what is the stuff that actually works? I have two very vine lines on my forehead but i'm super worried…

Okay why is this the second jez article about Joan Didion today where a commenter compares her in some way to Taylor Swift? Was that you on the other article too? Didion and Swift could not be more different — besides the fact that Didion only glowers and Swift always has an obnoxious I'm-skinnier/richer-than-you…

If you've seen any Marc Jacobs ads or Nylon photoshoots from the past 5-10 years (to name a few), that "visible flash look" is "cool." Terry Richardson is also into it, though he has his own issues obviously. I used to think it looked kind of weird, but I've gotten used to it. And I love the shot of Didion.

I'm from Minnesota originally but I have definitely heard of Osceola... I've even been there! So, can I get an invite to Jezebel or whatever I have to do to get out of the grays? :) I've been commenting in black for years until you switched the commenting system recently. :)

Finally, some GOOD NEWS! I needed this after all the Ferguson stuff in the last couple days... not that it makes Ferguson okay, but it shows that there is still justice in the world... at least there is in Canada.

In Oregon, there are ballot boxes along streets *everywhere*. On election day, even after I've dropped mine off, I'll end up driving past like 10 more just on my way home. I never bother mailing it in because I'm a procrastinator, but it's super easy to drop it off in the boxes. Sucks Washington can't do the same…

I guess I should have mentioned that I am white, but I still agree with what you said that the white men have been more entitled and gone further beyond talking and into the groping territory...

Interesting comment... I definitely get harassed by men of all races, but the (thankfully few) times I've been touched/groped, it was always a white man. One time was near the front of a large music festival, and people were packed so close together that the only way to get away from my groper was to jump through a…

By the way, I *LOVE* your user name. I was thinking of getting that quote as a tattoo... you are referring to Joyce, right? If not, I still like the username. :) My other Twitter handle is a Joyce quote...

Haven't you heard about latex fetishes? I'm not sure if scuba gear involves latex, but it's probably a similar group of people. There's a fetish about rubbing on inflatable toys that is surprisingly popular... I am no longer surprised about any fetish I read about. I bet there is a subset of people who are actually…

That is totally my fantasy too... I got out of the grays YEARS ago with one of the first commenting system here, so why am I back in the grays now? It makes no sense...

The whole point of this article was that more than 50 percent of women fantasize about forced sex. That is probably the MOST common fantasy that people think is "taboo" even though it's super common.

I think what the other responder was trying to explain was that s/he *fantasizes* about certain things, but wouldn't even be interested in trying them, even with a consenting partner. In other words, there is no interest in bringing the fantasy into the physical world, outside of one's mind. I definitely have…

I'm 33 and when I visit my parents, sometimes I hit the mall, and I think there's still a Delia's there, which I sometimes visit. I bought a few things from them when I was about 30, so don't feel bad. :)

Wow... my yoga pants from American Apparel (bought in 2011) have completely lost whatever keeps them stretchy, so now they are about a foot longer and several sizes bigger than they're supposed to be... I wear them as pajamas and have to hold them up so I can walk. I'm impressed your Delia's yoga pants are still…

I was skinny in the 90s but I had/have an eating disorder so I was convinced I was super fat... so I wore baggy, unflattering t-shirts and jeans... now that I weight 10-20 pounds more than I did then, I wish I had taken the chance to wear those midriff shirts! I could *maybe* still pull it off, but I'm still too…

My memory of Delia's is mostly getting their catalogues and looking through longingly, knowing my parents would never buy me any of it because it was way too expensive. (circa 1993-7 or so). One time I begged and begged for this pretty dress, and they finally gave in... when it got to my house, it was so short I could…

I fucking hate stock pictures of heroin. Heroin does not look like that, and the needles people used to shoot heroin DEFINITELY do not look like that. That is not an IV needle, that is a gigantic fucking needle used for vaccines or other IM injections (which go into your muscle and thus must be a lot bigger). Those…

It's all about the motivation. I say this as someone who used to stash syringes up there so I could shoot up on long flights so as not to go through heroin withdrawal over the Atlantic (Syringes have caps that go over the point, so no I was not stabbing myself, but it was still pretty fucking uncomfortable. However,…