stephaniedzieglo
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stephaniedzieglo

I'm tired of telling people I'm sorry about being seen as the bad person here who needs a wake up call. My comment was directed at someone who said something about how does one "raise a rapist". I don't think I was out of line questioning that very thing, I opened up a can of worms from the same people that I'm

It's fine, we're all fine here. I'm just mad that I came off like a butt, when I do understand what you were saying and I hate that you had that experience, and I don't like rape culture, and I do really want to cry now because I feel like everyone is yelling at me when I am not "that" person. But, somehow I have come

Ohmygawd. I'm sorry. I said that they can be slut-shamers, so yes they harass women. My god, I'm tired of trying to explain myself, I obviously have not worded myself properly in my first comment.

I don't believe that there aren't any rapists though, I do believe it is a problem and that there are too many, my god, I'm sorry. I agree with you, I'm sorry I wrote something the wrong way, I wasn't trying to say that they couldn't be a rapist, but my point was obviously lost and not conveyed properly, which is my

I understand. I'm really not trying to say that at all, yes science and statistics, so we all probably do. I agree with you. Just semantics, I'm sorry I didn't say what I wanted to say the way you wanted me to say it.

I don't, that was an error on my part for using hyperbole. But, that question is not really related to what I was trying to discuss. While I can't know 100% that they have never raped, it's not what the point of my comment was. I was trying to say more that even though I know some slut-shamers, they seem to understand

Ok, maybe I shouldn't have said "tons", I'm sorry that we live in an era of hyperbole. I have 15 male cousins, and about 6 male friends that I keep company with. And it's not like I played them as saints either, I'm not saying it's impossible that none of them have raped, that why I brought up that some of them can be

That's actually a really interesting question to ask, and I wish we could all discuss this. I don't have kids, but I have tons of male cousins and male friends that were all raised differently and none of them are rapists. All of them may not have the greatest views of women, but I will say that all of them at least

That's just sad. . . I agree that will probably be the result, and it's just really sad.

People on the back-end aren't paid based on the earnings of a movie. We are paid a lump-sum based on a contract and negotiating, or by our day rates. There is nothing to be upset about with this. She's a minor so couldn't have worked more than a 7 hour day, with an hour for lunch, and got paid a decent day rate. We

Thank you! I'm a video editor and I work with voice actors all the time. This is not a bad day rate. . . at all, by any means.

This is exactly what I've been feeling for the last 6 months about this place. It's ridiculous.

Yeah. . . I'm with you. I "get" what the writer is saying, but this gets attention, and puts "feminist" in a new light to a lot of people that wouldn't otherwise think that feminist aren't evil. It may be for-profit, but at least the message is out there, in a fun, approachable way.

Fat free cream cheese too. . . . I thought, "I eat the 3/4 fat version of slate, cream paste, surely this will be edible." NOPE! Nopenopenope.

I completely agree. I feel like people keep ignoring her age because of who she is, or what she's accomplished so young. But, she's a child, she should be doing children things. What 20 year old want to hang out with 13 year old anyways? My sister was 18 when I was 14 and COULD NOT STAND to be around me with her

I'm gonna give you a high-five too. I have a 14-year-old cousin, and her older cousins including me, are all well into our late 20's. If I caught a picture like this on her facebook or twitter, I would ABSOLUTELY have a problem with it, even if it was a "family friend". The dude would probably be threatened with

Thank you! I was having the same reaction. He's freaking crying! Stop laughing/recording and go hug him!

I completely agree with this statement. I feel like the commentors here, unfortunately, hear "18" and magically she's a complete grown-ass woman, that can do whatever she wants. But, if it was anything else, or the 18 year old "woman" had been involved in something that DID take advantage of her, they'd all be yelling

You almost lost me in a comment further up. But, this example of the "moral high ground", I can see where you're coming from. And while I hate the decision Chase made, you do bring up a good point.

I would actually have rather watched and listened to that. Watched AND listened.