startingovereasy
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startingovereasy

I’m a survivor of child sexual abuse , a few assaults and spousal rape.

Been there all my damn life.

I feel like #MeToo has become too focused on individuals and too gendered to have the change we need to see.

Seriously, as a woman- get thee to a gyno as a teen and stay going. Lots of folks get their pelvics & paps from their GP - don’t. Damn near every problem you have, they will say “that is just how some women are”. Find a gyno you trust and tell them everything. There are too many things that are warning signs that we

Hell, makes me love RuPaul MORE.

Not cute, but edible. They are eaten in their native lands. So go get your nutria supper today.

Look, if you want your allegations to affect someone else’s life, yes you need proof. I say this as a survivor.

Eh, I want to see the methodology. I’m a Black woman who dated men online after 30. Statistically, I should be buying another cat and knitting them another sweater - but I found my dude within the first week of posting. I’m not thin, I have never been conventionally attractive- not that it matters, my post didn’t have

Honestly, it looks skeevy, but that doesn’t mean it is. Straight up, when I was in high school, one of my best friends met her future husband. He was twice her age. He wasn’t a man child. They met at a workshop. They became friends. Something grew out of that. They’re married with kids now. She’s successful in her

Many Americans are swayed more by certain cults of personality/celebrity than what particular schools of thought espouse- or how they practice.  It is a defect of our culture.

American Buddhism seems to be about profiteering to me. I can’t stand the white linen, new agey feel they’ve draped all over it

I would pay for an asshole free workspace, but this - naw.  

Surprised it took this long actually. Trump literally ran on getting a “better” class of immigrants. I know too many Americans of all ethnicities who complain endlessly about others getting handouts from the government. Immigrants are the easiest group to pick on.

Honestly, I hope her family and friends are getting the support they need to deal with her and her addiction. Been there, done that and won’t do it again.

Geezus, his tweets don’t even rate on my offensive meter.

Full disclosure: I’m Black with an Asian immigrant husband. All my female in-laws are looking forward to this movie precisely because it isn’t The Joy Luck Club. Asians live a full range of lives and lifestyles and we want to see frothy fun for a change.

Save the world from machines!

My fave is “Is that so?/ Is that right?”

I will probably give it a 1 episode trial. Trailers suck and I haven’t read any criticism of this show that doesn’t make me roll my eyes.

All of this is going to have the opposite effect she desired.