I don’t know what to tell you. The Black community is generally hypocritically religious, not remotely socially liberal, anti LGBTQA, and sex negative.

My BFF has been in design for years. She designs for bodies that are athletic to thin because that is her own aesthetic and what she understands, truthfully. Although clothing has a function, design isn’t different from other artistic pursuits. People try to create items that fulfill their aesthetic desires & are…

I swear, if any adult of any gender or genderless situation ever sexually abuses my child(ren); I will not call the cops. I will just take out the trash.

What am I supposed to say? This is an uneducated child who is a victim of shitty parenting.

As long as you selling ideas and promising riches (in heaven) - you are straight with the penal code. Disgusting, but legal.

Look, I kind of feel bad for the scammed, but....

I can’t entirety agree with that. Cultures with spicy foods do cook less spicy options for young children (toddlers), but your friends sound extreme. (Especially spoon feeding a 6 yr old.).

I really wish that women understood that their menstrual cycles are not supposed to be hellscapes - if the are, something is WRONG. My fibroids only got diagnosed when they pushed up far enough that my primary (actually her PA) thought I had an abdominal mass & sent me for an ultrasound.

Nah. I don’t just want sex; I want good sex, GREAT sex. I’m over 40 & I don’t have great sex with people I don’t really know or trust. I’m not religious & I don’t care what people think of me, but 1st date sex has never appealed to me.

This is nice and all, but I can’t overstate how important straight talk is. People act too cute about sex.

Why is a 50 yr old man assaulting a 13 yr old child STATUTORY rape?! Does NC think kids can consent to men old enough to be their Grandfather?

I can’t lie- I love this chick’s music. I don’t watch her or follow her ANYWHERE because I know she’s a hot mess.

Nah, can’t do Santa. I’m cool with Christmas. I celebrate it as a bastardized pagan holiday that is overly materialistic, but I soften it with good food & family time. Luckily I married a lazy Buddhist who has no interest in the Santa lie.

Shit, I’m terrified because it isn’t like my health care has been all that great & I’m not pregnant yet. I’m still recovering from surgery to remove 16 fibroids so I can get pregnant. I suffered with those things for years because no one listened to my symptoms. Now, if I do get pregnant- I am guaranteed a high risk…

Been there, got abused by that and wasn’t nothing good about it. I used to use this song & then Vivian Green’s “Emotional Rollercoaster”.

Fuck this shirt! FUCK IT! My mouth tastes like ashes looking at it.

Not shocked at the abuse or the punishment porn. That shit is pretty standard- except for maybe shaving the head. Some version of”so you think you grown” has preceded every country ass muthafucka beating the shit out of an adolescent.

Look, I’ve had a third party tell me my supposedly committed dick was wandering & I appreciated it. They weren’t angry at me in the exchange and I wouldn’t have known for months without their intel.

Is Nola mature poly? Hell no, but she is someone that every poly person over a certain age has met.

I am a survivor of multiple sexual assaults. Stepbrother. Co-worker. Acquaintance. Complete stranger. Ex-husband. There is literally only 1 person on the planet that I would likely defend against any accusations, my husband.