Reality can kill you . . . and the masses turn away as their eyes glaze in disinterest. Bring on the next fool, the next car wreck we can slow down to gape at, while missing seeing that the brakes on our own car have stopped working.

My biomom is a hoarder, possibly due to having to give me up + OCD tendencies. Watching the hoarding shows helps give me insight into her disorder, and allows me to find compassion for someone who can sometimes be difficult to understand and get along with. Also, it serves as a warning for me to not let my…

Yes! "Nice" is a social construct of inter-relatedness and also a social burden placed on women. I'm friendly, but not nice. Also, I'm like you in that I make independent judgements at work and since I work in both a traditionally female profession (library) and one overwhelmingly staffed by women, I'm expected to…

That presupposes the other person understands this "being an adult" concept. I found out (purely by accident) 2 weeks after breaking up with my last bf that he had hacked my computer and was monitoring my phone, my email, fb, and also trying to get access to my online bank account. This article was helpful for me to…

That presupposes the other person understands this "being an adult" concept. I found out (purely by accident) 2 weeks after breaking up with my last bf that he had hacked my computer and was monitoring my phone, my email, fb, and also trying to get access to my online bank account. This article was helpful for me to…