I do think it's a growth thing. Some of the best feminist dudes I know fully admit to being whiny assholes like that when they were younger (some of them I knew as whiny assholes, some I only met as awesome guys). As a woman who's friends with a lot of men and likes sports and beer and whatnot, I was also kind of an…

A ghostbusters movie that's written by, produced by, and stars men? So like, the original Ghostbusters?

Yay you!

That isn't even nice, though. I spent seven years totally in love with a very fucked-up boy; we weren't formally together bc in hs he barely noticed me, then in college (he was a year ahead) we were 2000 miles apart, but man when we were around each other, he was sooo charming, and so poisonous. It ended for good four…

Breaking down, asking for help...these things do not make you weak.

1. I am so, so sorry you are going through all of this. I had to stop reading halfway through to angrily pace around my room before sitting down and finishing.

My life is complete!!!!

What's brown and sticky?

Just read everything you can get your hands on. I am not a huge fan of Hemingway, but he writes well about writing. Read "Politics and the English Language" (Orwell), and read lots of things by women and men, canonical and non-canonical authors, things written in English and translations. And then, try to say things…

Just read everything you can get your hands on. I am not a huge fan of Hemingway, but he writes well about writing. Read "Politics and the English Language" (Orwell), and read lots of things by women and men, canonical and non-canonical authors, things written in English and translations. And then, try to say things…

But, this man was a real outlaw, not the gun-toting kind, but the kind reserved for a special execution, the type I planned on giving him…

Does he though!?!?!?!?!?

That is a serious affront to Yoda.

I don't even understand the second paragraph. It sounds a little like he's trying to channel Kerouac?

Totally. True romance!

I don't even have love emails. Love...gchat convos? Does that count?

Apple-cider vinegar leaves my hair feeling super clean, but not stripped of oil.

The t-shirt is great! Even if you don't leave it in overnight, just a few hours can work.

I LOVE your short look! I have super curly hair (and like, tons and tons of it), and the shortest I've ever had it is just below chin-length. I didn't exactly get the courage for that cut, either — it happened after I had something of a breakdown and cut off a lot of my own hair. Anyway. I've thought about getting it…

I get the knots out when my hair is wet, and usually when it has conditioner in it. NEVER brush though.