Yup, or "English" with the same focus — maybe the 18th century that conveniently forgets the existence of Frances Burney?

Right??

But it's sort of weird to get mad at someone for throwing a party you don't want to go to. If it would be a strain on your time or finances, just don't go.

Maybe not repeated twice, but isn't it important that this difference is explained, since there are clearly so many people who don't understand it? I feel like the more people talking about what consent looks like, the better. (I feel like that is different than sexual oneupmanship, which is definitely super annoying).

But the exact same he said/she said problem applies to "she said yes"/"no I didn't" or "she wanted it" or "she was sober enough" etc etc etc. It applies to women who have had casual sex — so obviously all sex is good to them! it applies to women who wear tight jeans or short skirts or low-cut tops because obviously…

'Secretary' is where it's at.

I mean, it was kind of relevant to this piece.

I'm waiting to hear what health benefits women get from sleeping with over 20 men. Then we can take that research and yell, in a very timely way, at "What's Your Number."

Yup. I used to be super shy, but when I kept I was insisting that I was shy in late college my friends called bullshit; that's when I figured out I'm a highly social introvert. Sometimes, nothing is better than bailing on plans with friends to watch Netflix and eat string cheese alone in bed.

Did they meet in person before making the big move? If not it still seems crazy, but every once in a while, crazy winds up working.

Yup. Got called a cunt today for not responding to a lazy, one-line message. Fun times.

Well, I think people do tend to be more one or the other, but most people have a misconception of "introvert" or "extrovert." Doesn't mean extroverts don't value alone time or introverts can't have lots of friends/do well at parties. It's about energy. Do you recharge by being alone, or being around people? If I'm…

Pants-sharing is where it's at. My dad does the I guess traditionally 'masculine' thing of managing most of my parents' financial stuff (they both discuss everything, but he actually fills out the forms/works the details); my mom is way better than he is at negotiating/being self-promoting/promoting him, where my dad…

As a second-year grad student who started grad school with a broken heart, I totally know where you're coming from.

Racist civil war ghost maybe?

I think it's a little easier without a creepy soundtrack.

holy crap that gif.

Had his grandma lived in the house before you guys moved in?

Being new to grad school is HARD. None of those things seem particularly horrible to me as long as the bourbon/sleeping pill combo doesn't become a thing, but as we're heading towards finals, stress is gonna build up, so find a release. Find an activity, find a new group, find a therapist, or all of the above?

Maybe he should wait to come out until he's at school in/living in America?