Some of the shit he said on Twitter was genuinely awful, and it wasn’t “idiotic” to be off-put by it. That one about fat chicks? It wasn’t even a joke... it was just pointing and laughing at fat women. It wasn’t trying to be clever or witty or anything: it was just fucking mean.

You know, I take serious issue with the fact we are calling this idiotic. The jokes he wrote weren’t funny, and they were definitely antisemitic and weirdly misogynistic for literally no reason. It didn’t even improve the stupid, shitty jokes. Had he been, say, a Republican staffer who was making inappropriate…

I just, don’t understand why we are giving him the runway. We go off on so many people for exactly the same thing Noah did. I mean how many times have we read that “the Internet is real life” and that threats and statements on the Internet do carry real world consequences? Why is Noah being left off for misogynist and…

Different things work for different people? It is like magic for me. It never flakes and it only requires one coat to make my lashes look amazing and stay curled all day.

Different things work for different people? It is like magic for me. It never flakes and it only requires one coat…

Maybelline makes so many great mascaras (and they're all available waterproof and in brown!) but good old Great Lash is my favorite.

Maybelline makes so many great mascaras (and they're all available waterproof and in brown!) but good old Great Lash…

51 and they can cut my hair when I'm dead.

No long hair after 30 is bullshit. Wear long hair for as long as you want. If it suits you long and you feel great wearing it go for it.

Don't feed the trolls, guys. He's just angry a fe-male has a short haircut that makes his pee-pee unhappy. No woman can be attractive unless she's tiny with enormous hooters and waist-length hair, you know. And attractiveness — to him, specifically — is the only thing that matters.

The best way to BCO is to not jump on it first thing, but to let it marinate for a few hours until there are 1000 comments and it takes half of forever to read.

I'm in the same situation as the guy above there, and... well for me at least, that means compromise. There is always a form of compromise. Lets say it's the holiday thing. Alternate years or holidays within years even. To get who gets to start first, flip a coin. If it's unbearable and the other person is willing to…

Of course there's a compromise with holidays. There's a compromise with everything. If you're arguing to win rather than to solve a problem, you're not a couple. You're just someone who has someone else around to pay for things and fuck.

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I'm explaining the widespread impulse, and it's root cause. I would venture exactly none of these guys know why they do the things they do.

Usually not. Pillow princesses are rare, and tend to congregate in certain locales (though, there are some stone butches who are more than happy to accommodate them). What is more common is having women insist on really slow, gentle lovemaking where they very gently trace circles around your clit and refuse to do…

She's not saying she won't do other things to pleasure her partner, only that she's closed up shop on the blow jobs. Who knows, maybe she gives a hell of a hand or rim job.

As a lesbian, my experience is that we are more likely to work out what each partner likes and then do that, rather than considering anything mandatory for it to be real sex, or good sex. I feel like we're more creative and adapt better to each other's preferences, since our toys don't care whether they get to be…

"The point being: whatever any couple negotiates in good faith is their business. The whole thing sheds light on how oral sex is often seen as obligatory for the woman to give, and generous for the man to give; in any arrangement where the man is willing to eat pussy every time, this usually just means both people get…

"Iraq has weapons of mass destruction."

Real conversation from about 4 years ago, between me and my husband who was supposed to have quit smoking:

I had a co-worker that would fake an asthma attack whenever he didn't want to work, this would happen about once a week. He also would refuse to dust any of the fixtures because of his asthma. One time he was in the (empty) break room and another employee walked by and heard him on the phone saying he was leaving…