*TRIGGER WARNING* I used to work in a photo lab. I saw all kinds of photos, and one of the things I saw was photos of deceased people. I developed crime scene photos. I developed drug photos, war photos, sex photos, everything. I saw everything.

OK first off....William Shatner Cat (William Catner, if you will) .....wtf?

Lately when people ask me how I’ve been instead of saying busy I give them a real answer. “Happy!” “Fulfilled!” It really confuses people!

Holy shit.

I tried to count the number of ways that photo is in appallingly bad taste or outright offensive, but my brain felt like it was going to explode, so I’m going to console myself with kittens and red wine and back away slowly.

Uhh. It’s my emojii name for him...Which is why I have the screenshot...

Kylie and Tyga: Till death due us appart or till more famous person will come along.

I just love how fast the smile evaporated when he saw the camera was on him. Reminds me of when my cat licks a piece of food and I catch her and she just walks away and starts cleaning her butt like, "nah, I didn't do that."

You are so cute I want to punch you in the face.

IT MADE SENSE AT THE TIME! I did hair from 1996-2006. I did the Rachel a lot, but people would ask specifically for me not to give them the Rachel. They just wanted side bangs, lots of face framing layers, a little volume at the crown, and for their hair to flip at the shoulder.

So, if I went to my stylist last week and demanded a Rachel because it seems to be coming back in style, is that a lose or a win?

From Your Lips To Cods Ears

No it wasn’t “dismissive”. JFC. Read it again. And again, in case you’re still not getting it: “I’ve had very openly gay managers, and a current one dyes her hair black and blue and displays prominent tattoos. This reminds me of the breast-feeding debacle a while back, where one lone manager decided to be an asshole.…

After a day trip a few years ago with my Mum and the sisters above (Sash) and below me (Childling), we went to the train station to see the Sash off as she was living elsewhere with her now-husband at the time.

One more story. One of the families in our neighborhood were immigrants from China. The youngest son was and is a wonderful artist. Back in high school, he won a national competition and one of his paintings was shown at a museum in DC. His parents worked within walking distance but refused to go because they were…

My Mom passed a little over a year ago and I miss her every single day. Her parents were immigrants and all the men in her family were coal miners starting back when boys dropped out of elementary school to start working in the mines. She survived a childhood full of deep poverty and anti-immigrant bias, taking away…

I guess I was thirteen because it was shortly after A Walk to Remember had been released on VHS (oh yeah VHS!), my younger brother was at a sleep over and my mom decided to treat me to a mother-daughter movie night. Seeing as she was a single parent, time + disposable income was rare so this was a big deal. I remember…

My mother grew up in the Bronx, but after I left home she and my (now deceased) stepfather decided to buy some acreage outside of New Paltz. She also decided she wanted to raise animals. Did I mention she was from the Bronx?

C'mon picture uploader...

A couple of years ago, my friend and i went on a little hike at a marsh/bird sanctuary. Afterwards we came back to my house (I live with my parents). My mother of course wants to see all of the pictures we took. After getting through photos of various plant and animal life, we land upon a picture of a cute little…