Talk to the neighbors, they will tell you everything you need to know.

I’m pretty sure he has,

Believe me, there’s a huge proportion of people who would willigly scuttle an otherwise loving relationship because they put more faith and fidelity in the words and teachings of someone they’ve never met but have only “felt”, than the person they can reach out, touch, hold, kiss, and make love…

I’ll add another voice to those telling the agnostic dude not to marry the Christian girl. I married her and it was a disaster. Her church wanted me to take on leadership roles after I started going and I ended up doing so, feeling uncomfortable and fake the whole time. She also wanted me to follow biblical teachings…

See, this appeals to me. I totally get it.

It’s something that comes up a lot when there’s a libido mismatch between partners - and that’s incredibly common because our sex education (when we get it) is a glorified anatomy lesson and doesn’t cover things like “how sex works in relationships” or issues like the fact that different people have different sex…

Just depends on the people/situation I think... if the other person is doing a good job for me, no lube needed and sometimes I actually don’t like the additional slipperyness from lubes on top of what I have going on. Plus, I really like licking my own juices off the other person’s hand and I don’t like lube mixed…

I have thoughts.