My partner’s dad is very religious while his mom is not. From what I gather, the dad has become more outwardly religious since retiring and having more time to go to church all the time, etc.

It can also be really hard when you WANT physical affection, yet you also fear it. That was my problem for a long time and it made a pretty big mess in my head and how I was interacting with people. I would get physical affection and it was terrible and felt uncomfortable and scary. At the same time I wanted it, but I…

All I can say is to not completely shut yourself off and keep your mind open! I promise there’s people out there that want that as well!

I’ve been w/ my current partner for 10 yrs and although he sometimes stays at my place about 1/2 the week, I’ve still kept my own place this whole time. Some people don’t get it, but it’s worked for us. I like having my own space and time to myself sometimes and until we can live someplace together where I can get…

I can be like that in my own weird way (esp w/ hugs, but my current partner seems to like them as much as I do, so it’s ok!) I hate always going back to the language of love thing, but it really does get to the point of people like showing and getting affections and signs of love in different ways. Sometimes what…

I really miss fucking, finishing and him staying in me and us falling asleep and waking up later with him still inside me and getting all hot again...

Just depends on the people/situation I think... if the other person is doing a good job for me, no lube needed and sometimes I actually don’t like the additional slipperyness from lubes on top of what I have going on. Plus, I really like licking my own juices off the other person’s hand and I don’t like lube mixed…

So glad I’m not the only one. I feel so dirty looking at some guy’s hands some times.....

Learned the hard way that swim trunk liners can be pretty fucking terrible....

hmm... not necessarily. Sometimes we just like having an out if it’s not going as desired.