(Sidebar- I hope you don't find me to be argumentative, I'm actually enjoying this conversation)

But don't you remember Diana's awesome afro? Cause I most certainly do - that and the black barbie in the red sequins dress were the most beautiful things in the world to me as a kid because they represented what I as seeing around me at the time.

My point is - what is a "regular" black woman? If a bi-racial woman identifies as black should "regular" black women try to stop her? My family runs from super light to super dark, super kinky to almost straight hair and we all consider ourselves "regular" black women. (by the way - both of my parents are black and…

see that is interesting - I would think that Yaya's texture has more in common with Tracee than with Lupita, her curl pattern is definitely looser. (and sorry but I've heard that Leela's hair is not what grew out of her head)

I understand your pain - but I come from the other side of the coin. I'm not sure how my hair would be classified because it has been in locs for 15 years but I get a lot of women, who also have locs, who assume I have fake ones because my hair doesn't look like theirs. I'm talking walk right up to me and stick…

it kind of seems like you are saying that Tracee isn't black enough to be a good example. I hope that's not the case because natural hair, not matter what type, is a lot of work if you want to pull it off successfully. Whether its loose curls or tight curls, locs or briads its a commitment of time and sometimes a…

I think the part that is missing is that Luda and his now wife have been together since 2009 (no, not a stalker but I know how to use Google!) It has been suggested that he wanted Fuller to get an abortion so that Eudoxie would not find out that he was cheating. It's not the abortion request that's shady, its the…

From what I've read other places, the bad part is that he didn't want her to have the baby, and offered her a bribe to abort, and yet now wants full custody. My guess is that Ms. Fuller thinks he is being a hypocrite by first trying to entice her to abort the baby but now wants sole custody of her. Its also being…

what in the world is universal water?

I want to hate you but I can't stop laughing

I'd think that semen would slide right off of a disposable bib whereas the texture of terrycloth would prevent any drippage

My reply was purely tongue in cheek - I can still sing all the words to Rubber Ducky by heart, bath time has always been lots of fun. For me at least.

Is it me or does she look older than him in a lot of the pictures? Like cougar and cub older

Not according to my dermatologist, but thanks for your concern!

I propose that anyone who doesn't want to take showers 2-3 times a day isn't doing it right.

You ever get on public transportation, and there's a strange smell - kind of funky. And everyone except for one person is looking around trying to figure out where it's coming from? I think these are the same folks that don't notice the funk

I once asked a woman to stop clipping her nails (they were flying all over the place) and she says "Oh! Did I get you?" as if that is the only reason you shouldn't send sharp projectiles of genetic material flying through a public space. Another time, a guy is a really nice suit rushes in between the cars of the C…

Preach

The first definition of patronizing that pops up on google is "treat with an apparent kindness that betrays a feeling of superiority" I think he is actually the perfect person to speak to her. He didn't call her any names and has been in the game - if he's not entitled to feelings of superiority over Igloo, I'm not…

I don't see how I shit on you as you put it. You asked a question and I provided an answer that I thought was appropriate. But you still don't get it. Are you being willfully obtuse intentionally? You answered your own question is your reply - you weren't aware of something and rather than do your own research you…