A good story for you - a friend of mine was married last fall, and they had a HUGE reception - 400+ people. The couple stayed at the reception until 1am, and headed to their hotel room with the plans of leaving for their honeymoon in Iceland the next afternoon.

I'd be willing to bet even back when folks were more likely to be virgins on their wedding night, they didn't always do the deed that night because they were tired or nervous or whatever.

Had fight before reception ended (9%)

Let me tell you, planning this wedding is the least sexy thing dudeofthedead and I have ever done. It's time consuming, argument provoking, and expensive. When the "big day" rolls around I honestly don't think it's going to suddenly make us super horny. We're basically being forced to engage in public speaking and…

I don't know why I want to mention this, but I find it interesting:

To quote the wise words of Dan Savage - "FUCK FIRST"

Number 3 is why I definitely don't want to be a virgin come wedding night. All the pressure, everyone knowing you're losing it that night, probably having bad/disappointing sex because it's the first time, and then facing everyone afterward. No thank you.

Okay, but that's sort of my point—that it is difficult and sometimes not realistic to expect women to balance it all. Sometimes we put more effort in one than the other. In my experience and observation of other relationships around me, men struggle with that less often because they often simply don't take on as much…

What is up with Twisty the Clown's mouth? I'd like to get in on the betting with "Phossy Jaw."

He's not a military vet. He was amputated below the knees as a baby because he was born without fibulas.

Weird how his previous responses to stress have been just firing a gun wildly into assorted things. (His own bathroom door, the roof of his car, etc.) Now he's in court and suddenly it's just crying. Maybe it's because they won't let him carry a gun in there?

"The stress I have endured since murdering a person has been sooooo hard on me."

Well, of course! Dude had been working hard at expanding his business and his overrated athletic persona for the past year after the London Olympics, which gave him his biggest endorsment deals and publicity of his career. He even toured America in the hopes of becoming more famous worldwide. He was on Larry King, Jay…

"There's nothing left of this man."

Can they seriously STOPPPP making him the bigger victim here? It's been ALL about him for the past 18 months. All we've heard during this trial is how much HE has been suffering. Fuck that already, what about HER? She was a perfectly happy and healthy woman until she met him. He caused all of this. Her parents have…

Those are some looong crocodile tears. My guess is that at this point (and maybe the entire time), the person Pistorious has really been crying for is himself.

I have a sinking feeling he's going to get as light a sentence as possible. :-|

Or cut her tongue out.

NOVA SCOTIA!!!!!!! IT'S A NOVA SCOTIAN SAILORS ACCENT!!!!!! Bearded lady talk has been bugging me for weeks.

Ha. That's funny.