This is stunning. The fit, the color, the shoes, the styling, everything is amazing.

That's awful and I'm sorry.

Yeah, not just you. She never really comes out and explains why a shiba inu might not be for most people.

I was dragged to a frat party, and when I said that I thought two guys was hot, the room was full of shock. All the women were in such disbelief, all the guys were like "that's so gross! Also, everyone knows that girls are hotter than boys". Yay for privileging straight male desires as mainstream!

They know we're not exclusive, but they don't know specifically about each other. I'm pondering on what I should do about the situation. Which, incidentally, might be the topic of a groupthink question soon...

Well, I did have a fantasy last night where I brought those two together to have them learn from each other, but I don't think it's what you mean ;)

Yes, this exactly! I've told so many guy friends who asked about it that there's no such thing as too much noise. Seriously, the more the better, no limit.

Amazing. You and your husband sound fantastic. Keep on keeping!

Completely agree about the erasure of male sexual response (what a great term) in straight porn. The worst of it is that men take their cues on how to act during sex from porn, so a lot of them are just as grimly silent as the guys in porn.

WHAT WHAT WHAT

Psh, wanting to have better orgasms while masturbating is a perfectly valid reason to own a fleshlight. The guy I'm seeing now has one and loves it. No need to make excuses!

8== D ):

Not exactly a heartening indicator of all that "diversity in tech" that tech professionals are supposedly socommitted to.

I dunno, she's gorgeous, is really fit, but still thin everywhere and a nice butt. You don't normally see all 4 in one woman, especially not one woman who takes lots of ass selfies. I go to the gym a lot, and I think she's pretty phenomenal.

Man ass! Man ass! Then again, as a straight woman, I'm obviously biased...

That's definitely the cultural stereotype. In my experience, it's vaguely true. I think guys are more likely to fall for a girl just because she's pretty or looks a certain way, and miss personality red flags. I think girls are more likely to fall for some dude in a band or who's good at sports and miss red flags…

I think part of it is our cultural ideal of a relationship where the man is richer and older than the woman, but the woman is more attractive. I don't care about the richer part, but I was shocked to find that I felt insecure when the man was more attractive or younger than me. It was like I felt he should be with a…

Oh god, this. I stopped using my mic and changed to a gender-neutral avatar and name a long time ago. I hated to do it, since I felt like I was participating in the erasure of women from gaming, but I was fucking tired of either being harassed or hit on aggressively by dudes.

I agree that feminists should be (and often are!) completely in favor of more custody for men. It's like that article that came out recently about how mandatory paternity care is good for working women because it normalizes the idea that men take care of kids.

...But wouldn't that unfairly impact parents that don't make as much? This seems like it's solely geared for rich parents and completely leaves everyone else out in the lurch.