Exactly. I read the article in my news app the other day, and was totally skeeved out. He talks about fans wanting to fuck him. Just, ugh. And the TMI series they are making about their swinging lifestyle - it’s too tacky, and really I guarantee very few really want to think of him this way. Career misstep. And that…

My current caught me doing something I shouldn’t have been...not cheating, but not respecting the boundaries of our relationship as I should have in terms of chatting with someone else. I sobbed and cried and said I’d do anything to get him back and he said he’d take me back on one condition: Threesomes. I cried and…

Hmmm yes, but non-monogamy and three-ways are kind of different things, no? It’s sad that she felt actual shame about trying something that turned out to be way out-of-bounds to her. I wish she could have just shrugged, like you said, Sas. 

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I completely agree about Middleditch, but in the end, his wife should just leave. Like, at any point one person in a relationship can be like, “Listen, I’m going to start having sex with other people. Do with that what you will.” And if that’s making their partner miserable, that partner should just bail. Every time I…

...weird dude from Silicon Valley...

Hmmm? I have the same age difference between hubby and me as Demi and Ashton, and no requests for a threesome in our 13 years of marriage. Maybe the problem is Ashton not the age difference.

I always struggle with the difference between coercion and being clear about what one needs/wants in a relationship. I’m fortunate enough to be in relationships with people who are on the same page as me about non-monogamy, and I dislike drama to the extent that I entirely avoid monogamous people who are ‘willing to…

It’s just too perfect that the weird dude from Silicon Valley would pull this shit. I hope she leaves him and takes him for everything he’s worth.

Her book details a lifetime of trauma and abuse. Regardless of age, a person can be vulnerable to manipulation, especially given the right set of circumstances.  And Ashton’s persona is certainly that of a dolt, but his success in business and entertainment suggests he’s rather more savvy than that.

Yeah, the Kutcher and Middleditch stories were...disturbing. Coercion is gross.

The Shiv Roy School of Things That Would Have Been Good To Know Before You Said Those Vows

“His justification reminds me of Thomas Middleditch, who recently outed himself as someone who coerced his wife into an open marriage.”

Somehow, this piece of info was barely a blip in the DM article:

I had a similar experience watching the movie Enemy of the State in theaters. For some reason, the house lights kept randomly coming on. At some point, they were on for around 30 seconds. Eventually. a large man stood up to face the projector and screamed in the thickest southern drawl you can imagine, “TURN OFF THE…

The google god said that Demi and Michelle (who was 17 at the time) made a shitty movie, Blame it on Rio, with Bologna and Caine. A judge had to sign off on allowing underage Michelle to pose topless on camera. Demi, a few years older, also went topless, for this crap movie. Bologna and Caine were both 30+ years…

No one knows her whereabouts but somehow the formerly adoptive parents are being charged with her abandonment despite her age legally being 22. This is almost like a murder case where defendant has been charged and on trial because the court is assuming the victim is dead because no one has seen them in like a month.

There is more to it than this. Can we read the story in a real newspaper at least?! Oh look! It's also being covered in the Washington Post!

Not only did Lizzo post it but a lot of the outlets that have reported on this have ALSO posted the woman’s picture and name. Including the TMZ article this piece links to. Cos the media are irresponsible. It’s one thing for one woman who doesn’t understand the impact of her newly raised profile to post something -…

Lizzo didn’t post a photo of the person she never saw, did she?