No, I am with you. Nothing you ever do will be enough for some people, and maybe I have a low bar, but you’re already doing way more than a lot of men I know/used to know.

I don’t know, I understand the commenters on here who take umbrage with your post — like, you’re not doing enough/you’re preaching to the choir/you’re being performative. But I think your attitude and your perspective are valuable and very needed. I will echo my fellow female Jezzies, however, in saying please do step…