43 year old voluptuous lady savoring her invisibility power as well!
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Because it’s only “real” to dudes when they can imagine how they would feel if someone did something bad to ladies in their lives. Like, “those hypothetical lady-people out there can go fuck themselves- whatever happens to them sucks and all, but if someone wrote about fucking my sister, goddammit, I would beat them…
Right? Shouldn’t the main women you should be worried about hurting or upsetting be the ones who you disclosed intimate details about in really disrespectful and dehumanizing ways? Like the woman you raped at the fucking hospital of all places and then laughed about?
“Oh fuck you for thinking that the only women that matter are your mother and your sister.” He probably thought he’d score some points with that one. One foot in misogyny, one foot in the enlightened world.
Damaged goods is such an ugly gendered term.
Projection comes as no surprise.
I’m sure a lot of us struggle with insecurities around dating. But reasonably healthy people do not use it as an excuse to treat others like crap and brag about how they treat others like crap.
The disconnect is happening because you can’t connect sex with hatred. It’s rapist culture. Sex isn’t occupying the same space as it does for you or I. It’s not about love or sensuality. For these “people,” it exists in a toxic melange of desire for power and to degrade that which they hate. Sex is a commodity and a…
I didn’t comment on that part because I knew someone else would say it, & you nailed it.
God I fucking hate when men say this. It seems to be a trope of sorts. The reformed man about town has a daughter and suddenly realizes GASP women are human beings.
And hark at him referring to a sexual partner as ‘damaged goods’ whereas he is nobly struggling with insecurities.
Things our mothers and sisters had to hear.
We didn’t always say nice things, and sometimes we were downright mean. Sometimes I just vented about frustrating experiences in an immature, hateful, and foolish way. It was in particular a breach of trust to post intimate details about lovers. I was naive enough to think it’d stay anonymous, and I was wrong.
BROpologies.
Okay, stop it. Do not compare the CLEARLY SUPERIOR DAARIO to this weasel.
Yeah, the “I really should be pitied rather than scorned” vibe. No thanks.
Most of my life I’ve struggled with insecurities around dating.
So he never had sex with a woman “that old”. A woman in her late 30s. That’s considered “really old”. WHO THE FUCK DO THESE GUYS THINK THEY ARE? LOOK IN THE GOD DAMN MIRROR YOU LOSERS! I’m 42 and I wouldn’t let your average looks anywhere near my pussy! I fucking hate deluded men who think they are god’s fucking gift…
The Constitution doesn’t say anything about thinking you aren’t a natural born American.
Exactly! I will vote for a pro-choice man over an anti-choice woman every single time. I will vote for a man who advocates for women’s rights over a woman whose policies harm other women. As Madeline Albright said, there is a place in hell for women who don’t help other women.