Look, lying about cheating is not gaslighting. It’s crappy behaviour, but if “gaslighting” is that mundane it’s a useless term.

Plenty of people devastate other people without cheating on them, or doing anything really wrong. Should we now shun people that end relationships where the other person is deeply hurt because the relationship is being ended?

Dismiss everyone until it is only you, the truly enlightened progressive who has attained a higher level of wokeness than all the plebs!

Cool, so every woman who has cheated isn’t a feminist, right?

Also women cheat. It has nothing to do with equality. You can also be a feminist and date a (male or female) model. Like what does that have to do with anything?

Honestly I am concerned about the starlets, though I took the aggressive part to mean that they came after him and he was a weak ass husband. The other stuff is part and parcel of virtually all cheaters, male or female. If my wife cheated and lied about it she would be doing those things to me and her politics would…

In that case, maybe we should stop anointing men with the label “feminist,” as we’re almost sure to be disappointed.

Thank you. I keep seeing the words ‘abuse’ and ‘gaslighting’ being thrown around. I mean, yes, he cheated and lied about it - DUH. How many cheaters (men or women) do you know who, when confronted by their spouses about their suspected infidelity, don’t come up with an excuse along the lines of ‘but you know me, I…

She also starts the essay off with “I’m a very private” person...and then launches into airing the most intimate details of how her marriage fell apart.

Can you be a feminist if you are a lesbian who has done the same to your family as Josh Whedon?

And we’re going on the word of Whedon’s wife who, at the beginning of her essay, starts of with “I’m a private person” before launching into airing her most personal business. This is her account, which of course would be more flattering to her and less flattering to the husband who left her.

I’m having trouble understanding why being a philanderer means someone can’t be a feminist. Until a woman he pressured into sex comes forward with her story, I can’t help but think this is stone-cold vengeance from Whedon’s ex - especially since he was the one who walked out on the marriage.

I don’t think either party should be playing their relationship in Publix and from what I can tell, only 1 is.

It’s been this way as long as I can remember, and I grew up in the 60's. The first time I actually felt like me and people like me were part of this country, was at Jerry Garcia’s memorial when his daughter Annabel said her father was a great American, and everybody cheered. The literal first time I felt like I…

Nah, all the people he sucker punched went blind.

I had to say goodbye the best dog I’ve ever had three weeks ago to the day. He had this weird toe. Like a fallen arch but it was in the toe. It gave it this super long appearance, like he was giving everyone the finger.

 My husband and our heeler are soulmates. I accept being the second love of his life.

I lost my soul dog in 2013. Nothing will ever replace him, but he waited to see me perfectly settled (he lived to 14) with a husband he adored and a child, after struggles in my early life. I will never have another Aussie after him. My current pupper is a gorgeous golden/lab rescue and she’s wonderful, but no one…

I was thinking the same thing. Romney’s been calling out Trump on his crap for a long time, pretty much ever since Trump announced he was running. He’s not some Johnny-come-lately to the anti-Trump camp.

“If the celebration of Romney’s statement irritates, it’s because the president’s racism isn’t particularly new, nor is his alignment with groups that identify as white supremacists. The list is long and sadly familiar; his fantastically racist world is one in which immigrants are murderers and rapist and one where…