Yes I'm super vigilant about not commenting on articles shared from Gawker. I'm just not sure how to tell if a Jez article has been crossposted to Gawker. I wish there was some way of knowing that before commenting.

Jesus Christ. I'm so sorry that happened to you! Even though it's internet strangers, it still cuts so deep. Why are people so hateful? Is it the anonymity of the Internet. I'm so angry for you.

Maybe I should stick to the socials. I'm not sure which articles are shared to Gawker and I would like to avoid the trolls if possible.

You’ve given me hope! Thank you so much.

Thanks. I was so excited about being taken out of the greys but it's backfired badly. At least in the greys you can comment without someone attacking you personally.

Jezebel only. I avoid gawker like the plague. It's really saddening.

I have a question for fellow ungreyed Jezzies. Every time I make a comment, the replies I get seem to devolve into personal attacks from trolls. I usually sign out after making comments now because I don't want to see the notifications. Is that just par for the course? If so I think my commenting days at Jezebel are…

I don't agree with that at all. The marriage is broken sure, but family is still family. That doesn't change.

Except she was honest. She told him and broke it off. No one is obliged to stay in a relationship if it isn't working, regardless of how the other person feels. She obviously wasn't happy or she never would have looked at another person.

My dad did have an affair and was with her when my parents split. But I was also eleven years old and didn’t need to be aware of the details of their split besides the fact they weren’t happy together anymore. At age eleven, the concept of cheating isn’t clear and I didn’t care about it at the time. Holding a grudge…

I totally understand your position though. I can't imagine how much that must have hurt to find out like that.

She was just in the press saying how much she loves Sean Penn so I don't think she meant him. He would be a better candidate for that title though, especially with that whole El Chapo bullshit recently!

I don't think divorce is breaking the family up at all. It's two adults deciding not to be together anymore. Children do complicate that, but it doesn't make a family broken.

I don’t know. I don’t agree with the concept of long term/permanent monogamy so I’m probably viewing her situation from a different vantage point than you would be. From your other reply, I see you have had experience as an uninformed spouse with a cheating partner. I think it is much better to end a relationship…

I would hope she was, he seems to deserve it more, but she has been singing his praises lately so I doubt it.

Debt and runaway new guy aside, reading your comment made me so happy. I wish more people were honest about their relationships and how feelings change.

I know in NZ and Australia, cunt can be used as a term of endearment. It’s definitely used more often than most countries. It doesn’t bother me when used in that context. I think context counts for a lot. It can be a very vicious word when used hatefully.

Exactly. If he is a cunt, the kid will work it out on their own. Stating it doesn't do a thing except make you look bad.

I don’t think any parent should just “let go” of their children... I also don’t think children should know the details of their parents sex lives either. It’s not “making nice” to separate the parenting of your children from your intimate relationships. Cheating isn’t the worse thing you could do to someone by far. I…

I'm not American, I'm from New Zealand. I live in Australia. I am well aware of the use of cunt in common language. It's all in the delivery though. You don't just call someone a cunt.