My dad has never worn a ring. He works in construction. He could lose a finger.

I thought the "Healthy Grilling!" caption next to the plate of fried chicken was hilarious.

Well, you people can't even spell "color" or any word that ends in "ize" right, so clearly spelling isn't very important to you.

Where are our American kids?

With a son and a daughter I have seen the different ways people treat boys and girls from a very young age and agree that they should be treated as babies first and foremost. Allowing a girl to think prettiness is important or implying to a boy that physical strength is his main attribute can set them up for all kinds…

Actually I am a feminist too. It means you believe in unquestionably in equality of the sexes, and am supportive of the various causes within. I feel the same way about lgbt issues. One doesn't have to buy into all of the philosophies that pop up in various movements to support what really matters.

I cannot imagine, to any degree, what it feels to not feel what you're told you are. All my life struggles (real ones that exist, yes) are confined to problems with life, death, and the shock of death (at ages and familial connections where it is genuinely disruptive to "normal" life) that are still "relatively" (and…

Look, we all understand how society and our culture at large breeds misogyny. We talk about it all. the. time. And yeah, I bet it does make you feel like shit to be taught that your job as a man is to win the prize of a lady - and then you don't end up winning the lady. No sarcasm, I can honestly see how that can make…

Sorry pal, REJECTING YOU, by itself, is not treating you like dirt. No one owes you anything.

Last time I checked, when a girl is pressured by society into bulimia, she doesn't go around threatening to stick her fingers down other people's throats.

i'm not unsympathetic to the 'resistance to tyranny' school of opposition to gun control, but in an age of drone bombers and civilian police forces buying secondhand military armored personnel transports, it doesn't hold water. your ak isn't going to stop the army if they go fascist, but it just might kill a couple…

Dear Exene Cervenka,

Aw, dude, come on. Just because you've felt negative emotions before in relation to romantic endeavors, it's not okay to accept a date with someone of a different sexual orientation than you, just so you can get a free drink and call someone a creep. That's just being shitty to someone for the sake of being shitty…

Serious question: are you getting that you being a self described terrible person is why you are lonely?

I'm reasonably certain that you're a sociopath. You may want to get that checked out.

You think women don't also get told they're not attractive ALL the time? So instead of just finding a girl who likes what you look like, you're going to harass a gay guy? WTF?

what they want isn't "most women", though. They feel entitled to the size 4, white, rich, blonde sorority girl (80% of this or more is about looking good to other men!) and see the women they could actually get as "beneath them".... while the women they want, are so far out of their league that they're in orbit. If…

THIS is the point I keep making - where is the female corollary for this kind of rage? There are PLENTY of women who feel hurt, alone and rejected, and yet I cannot think of a single instance where the response is "righteous indignation," but internalized shame - "I'm unlovable because I'm fat/too thin/ugly/gross/too…

I'm a straight woman who feels like no one's attracted to me. I "peaked" over ten years ago according to men. At least men don't depreciate like fucking cars. Whyyyy do men think women are never lonely, rejected, ignored?! Is it because the "dime pieces" are literally the only ones on your radars?