Snowflake Especial is actually where I landed from my rabbit hole yesterday. Fascinating stuff. This is touching on what bothers me about Kaitlyn Jenner. I've always had a problem with "female" being reduced to an interest in clothes and dressing the way a straight privileged white dude would want a trashy woman to…

Agreed. Nobody else is raising this issue but at what point in their transition should we accept transwomen in female bathrooms? I sure don’t want somebody looking like a man in my bathroom/shower

Had that experience in a college dorm. The floor was coed with one big bathroom with stalled toilets and a bunch of individual shower stalls with curtains. And shockingly enough, a bunch of 18 year old boys turned out to have a few bad apples who were NOT always respectful of naked girls taking a shower just a few…

Same here. I am fine with gender neutral single restrooms, but the idea of using the same bathroom that the men in my office use really makes me uncomfortable. Privacy and maturity concerns mostly, it is hard enough to be a woman in the workplace to begin with. We have all sorts of crap to overcome just by nature of…

but like I’ve said before in these arguments...nothing is stopping a predator from coming into a women’s room. it’s just not the security you think it is.

What is stopping a man from walking into the women’s bathroom and assaulting you?

A couple of weeks ago, I was at a restaurant that had two single-occupancy bathrooms. One had a women’s sign on it, one a men’s sign. The women’s room was occupied. I stood there for about 10 seconds, and tried the handle on the men’s room. It was unlocked and vacant, so I went in and peed. I don’t understand why…

I have two problems with all bathrooms being gender neutral (and I’m talking about bathrooms with multiple stalls): 1) Men are dangerous. I don’t want to be in a confined space with my pants down where there’s a strange man right next to me. The more I have to do that, the higher my chances of being assaulted or at…