Yes, and how would/could this matter be policed ? There are many androgynous/butch women who have been stopped when they enter the women’s restroom - by other women most of the time. Sometimes the scrutiny goes as far as revealing their own breasts from sheer exasperation, when their voice/hips, even ID cards weren’t…
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Right - this stuff can be difficult to process. Most people want to be good people, who are open and accepting of diversity, who try to accept others at face value.
No, I am saying that there are men masquerading as women to invade women’s spaces like bathrooms and locker rooms. They are not doing this because they just need to use the washroom so badly. They have sexual/fetishistic motivations. I am also saying that there are SOME (some = a minority) tranwomen who share these…
I don’t care who is a slut, or who acts like a slut, esp when they do it in a a sane way that doesn’t hurt others (ie non-consensual non-monogamy).
When you have met a creep, have you ever had the sense they were “off” or there was something about them that you couldn’t put your finger on, that made you uncomfortable ? Have you ever spotted a person down the street, and you could just tell by how they were walking that they were trouble/up to no good, etc. ? Did…
Trust me, I know what a crossdresser is. However, as of right now, there are TONS of dudes who would have been your garden variety crossdresser a decade or more ago, who are now identifying as trans. The internet seems to turn into an echo chamber. How many MTF’s did you meet a decade ago ? How many do know right now ?
Maam, you need to go to some fetish parties. Or have a look at the Casual Contacts section of your local CL. I assure you, this is a phase that DOES NOT pass for a certain type of person born male. They love sluts (in porn) so they also want to be a slut like that. Sadly, that is as far as their imagination of women’s…
No, the cited paper notes the incidence of criminal behaviour is identical between men and MTF’s. This is not my opinion. This is a result of male socialization/testosterone/entitlement. Read the full paper for yourself.
Please - all this cis nonsense is erasure. Someone like Caitlyn Jenner buying herself the Woman of the Year thing is erasure. The silencing of women’s issues is erasure. The renaming, 1984 style, is erasure(“uterus havers”). Nonsense for midwives and the terminology they are told to use, in case some non-female…
That’s perfect. I will be in the WOMEN’S bathroom. I might be sharing it with some butch gals and radfems - hope that won’t upset you. Any women who are certain they were physically born as girls and developed into women will be using it as well.
It’s a complicated subject. I had a long history(like 25 years+) with the fetish community. I met a wide variety of crossdressers, drag queens and a cross section of trans people. The FTM people in their 20's were a giant world apart from pervy fake trans dad in his 50's or other late transitioners who were also…
You are missing the point that many crossdressers and late transitioners are fetishists, who are getting off on many aspects of being in a woman’s space like a bathroom. Those are men. Men with boners, listening to women pee, doing voyeurism, hiding cameras, liking women’s FEAR and discomfort and doing all kinds of…
Great but how do you tell a “legitimate” trans person from a creep ? What if you are in the bathroom and a creep starts creeping ? Then what ?
Gender Critical is NOT the same as being “anti-trans”. If you are fine with a bunch of straight dudes who now consider themselves lesbian women, forcing you to apologize for talking about your period, calling yourself a “uterus haver”, and otherwise erasing your female existence, well ???
Please, do some googling. “Not All Trans” leaves out the creeps who DO assault and violate, as well as men who are only imaginary trans who assume this identity to access women’s spaces. Lots of creeps put on SPECIAL makeup and SPECIAL lady outfits to creep on women and girls in places like bathrooms and locker rooms.…
The sad thing is that many transwomen(whether a crossdresser or on hormones, etc.) have assaulted women and children, in sex segregated spaces like washrooms and shelters. Google it if you don’t believe me.
But where do you draw the line with regards to transwomen ? Is a man dressed as a woman who says he is a woman really a woman because he says so ? What if this person still has a penis and testicles and is not taking female hormones, and is only sexually interested in women ? And has behaviour like a man, except that…
There should be single stall, gender neutral bathrooms everywhere. Ones with doors that lock. Plenty of them, in addition to the usual men’s and women’s washrooms. All of these should have baby change stations, and be wheelchair accessible.