So then, is a man who only tops with men actually straight? This seems like a limited and possibly phobic view of human sexuality.

Yeah, because there’s a serious shortage of pornographic materials presented by adults of their own free will. Poor guy was practically forced to steal.

For a long, painful 3 seconds, I read this as “Bruce Springsteen is playing the inauguration.”

He looks like a heart attack waiting to happen, so there’s hope.

Been there. I hope you know that none of your behavior (feeling needy, taking a risk, not speaking up, etc.) is weird or wrong or even unusual. Don’t feel ashamed that you didn’t have this whole thing figured out right out of the gate. It took me years to figure out how to navigate my relationship with an abusive ex.

I was in Hollywood for the first time in November, and I was frankly underwhelmed by the Walk of Fame. It was just a gross sidewalk, and some of the “stars” listed seemed questionable, at best. I don’t mean to take away from Viola’s experience or anyone else’s, but to have your name engraved on a grubby star outside a…

It would be interesting to see the Rockettes perform at the inauguration with emotionless faces and tepid kicks. It’s a form of protest we’ve never seen before.

My boyfriend had a vasectomy long before I met him. It is the BEST birth control, and I love him all the more for it.

I’ll take moderately handsome poor intelligent man over the Donald any day. :-)

And for the record, I’m usually a good tipper, so this really concerns me. Am I that lady?

I didn’t think you were supposed to tip Uber drivers, honestly. Did something change? I thought the beauty of Uber was that everything was automatically taken from my account.

Ha. This was my exact response. I DON’T NEED YOUR SILLY LADY CAR, YOU TROGLODYTES! But, ooh, purple.

JA divorced him eleven years ago and moved on with her life. I imagine this affects her only because the public seems to be obsessed with the supposed “love triangle.”

I am tall, and just looking at this fabric pulling upward at the crotch fills me with anger, anxiety, and pain. Now that I think of it, I think all of the snap-crotch tops that are making their way back into stores are the reason I was in such a shit mood for much of the late 80s/early 90s.

R.E.M.’s “Automatic for the People.” Dorm room, 1992. I was a late bloomer.

Yes. Seconded. Divorce, despite being something I feared and actively avoided for far too long, was one of the best things I ever did for myself. I wouldn’t hesitate to recommend it to any person living in an unhappy marriage.