A bunch of years ago, in a heavy rainstorm, I heard loud meowing outside my apartment window. I looked out and found a sopping wet cat desperate to come in. I am NOT a fan of cats. I brought it in and got it something to eat and called the local pet store in the morning to find out what to do with the cat. They…

Agreed — if they just told her to get out, they were completely wrong. If they offered her the private room and treated her like any other customer, I think they did about as well as they could.

Oh, man, I don't know. That's all I've got.

I'm going to try for a defense here again. I admit to struggling with this issue because it is complex no matter how simple you try to make it seem. I also am starting to think the only real solution is to have completely private dressing rooms for all, because I don't know how else to make everyone feel OK in this.

I am not misunderstanding anything. I do not think you can make any sort of blanket statement about what a male crossdresser might choose to wear in any situation. And, again, this is leaving it up to the store to either decide by what the person is wearing / makeup / hair or to ask for specifics or to just allow…

I dunno. I don't think that this is about attraction (or not completely). I think it is about the body shame and feeling judged of the other customers.

So, the store needs to quiz the customer and ask "are you a woman or are you a cross dresser" ? How would the store know which is which? The gender you identify with is about what is inside your head, which the store and the other customers cannot see. So, they either have to ask you, make the call themselves and…

Yes, but doesn't that leave it up to the store to decide which situation it is? Does the store clerk have to size up the person and decide if this is a man being a creep or a trans woman who is very early in transition?

Even though I fear the flame, I'm going to give a bit of defense to them ...

I did not do well on the Mirena — I bled every single day for 7 months and then got it taken out. Sigh.

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Uterine cancer cannot be found via a blood test, only a tissue test.

I asked this when I had my hysterectomy too!

When I had my hysterectomy, I asked this! If you have the robotic surgery, it is pretty much blended into tiny pieces before they suck it out of you. They then test the remaining chopped up bits and incinerate when done. I was kinda hoping I could have mine in a jar, but alas, no.

I think they should be on TV more often, just an hour or so once a week of Kathy Griffin saying outrageous things and Anderson Cooper giggling and blushing. I'd totally watch that.

I would like to be able to edit google docs from MS Office as well. My company blocks google drive, so I cannot even see my google docs when I'm connected to the network at work. They are all synced to my laptop, just cannot get there. Would be nice to be able to see them.

No need to film them! Just knowing how confused they must be, if they even notice, is enough.

I am a huge fan of eShakti! They have a ton of knit jersey dresses too! And, they virtually always have some sort of deal going on, plus, if you fill in the user surveys they send each week, they'll give you a $10 credit.

When I was in college, we used to joke about how fun it would be to break into someone's house and either ....

I particularly like the terribly aggrieved white guys (it's always white guys) who are so very very upset that they are not "allowed" to use the n-word. Seriously, dude, you are totally allowed to say anything you want. But, I'll think you're an asshole.