And also adventurous!

Yep, I prefer licking top to bottom only. Bottom to top feels like he is licking a shit ton of bacteria right up into my urethra where it’s going to cause a UTI.

that's why they call it a blow "job".

Um, can we have sex, now?

I’m now in my mid-40s, and I wish there wasn’t such a “hush hush” feeling surrounding these topics when I could have really used it back in the days.

I used to say that an ex treated my clit like it was a stamp pad and he was being thumb printed for a life in prison. Story visuals included grimacing, gnashing my teeth and making a grinding motion with my thumb

Take a peach and practice.

I take offense to this as a person who has sucked a lot of dicks (I don’t actually take offense, tbc)

As a mini-addendum, ladies, don’t be afraid to speak up! My girl was SO concerned with how it’d make me feel if she “critiqued” my technique, but if we REALLY care about you, we want to give you what you want - so if there’s something specific that really gets you off, TELL US! For a guy like me that loves giving…

It took a pretty embarrasing amount of time for me to realize that. Now, whenever I hear that -

I think you’re right on the money. I was just listening to a podcase the other day, I can’t remember which one, where a comedian was talking about the most surprising thing he learned about the business when he moved to LA was how fucking dumb a lot of really talented big-name actors and actresses were. He said it…

Only class you need

Sometime I feel like I am one of the only woman alive who can’t reach an orgasm through being eaten out,...or sometimes it feels that way. Truth be told I don’t even think it feels that good! And please don’t say I just haven’t had someone “do it right”. It sucks, because my guy LOVES to do it, and I oblige, but ehhhh…

Yeah, too many people think “don’t stop” means “faster!”

I feel like I nearly beat my boyfriend over the head like “don’t move do exactly that DO NO FUCKING MOVE”

But there’s one thing, above all else, that you should remember as she gets close to orgasm: do not change what you’re doing in terms of routine and pacing.

Keep in mind that some women won’t know what they like, either bc they have never experienced cunnilingus before or have only experienced mediocre cunnilingus. If you keep asking, and they keep not answering, at some point you have to switch tactics. Instead of, “what do you like?” try, “do you like this?” while…

Kerner recommends watching and listening to her reactions to find what works best, but there’s another old standby that works just as well (if not better): ask your partner! If they know what they like, they’ll probably gladly tell you. And if you two haven’t become comfortable talking about sex yet, we’ve written…