No you don’t have to have surgery to be trans. You don’t even have to be on hormone therapy. You’re confusing gender with sex. This isn’t an issue of biology, it’s about their true selves and revealing that truth to the world.  Surgery, hormone therapy and cosmetic surgery is about seeking to make their appearance…

The “it felt so good and uplifted me” part literally made me (an immune compromised frontline provider who hasn’t eaten out, seen family/friends, or left the house to do anything other than drive to the hospital since March) yell, “FUCK YOU!” at my laptop screen.

It seems most people don’t want to know that testing negative isn’t a magical ‘get out of quarantine free’ card. If you’re exposed, you gotta quarantine for 14 days from your last exposure, regardless of your results. You can still test positive later!

Ridiculous. My mom is an oncologist and her hospital doesn’t have enough tests to test “asymptomatic” employees who have been exposed to COVID while working. How on earth is what Cardi and her people do more essential than fighting cancer? Why are we wasting tests on them when they can just STAY HOME??

Chris Evans in Knives Out was in a Pumpkin spice color scheme the entire film and it was truly delightful.

I was listening to the directors commentary of Knives Out, and I think it was Rian Johnson during the scene where Chris Evans is in that restaurant with Ana De Armas and he said something like, people keep asking me where did I get the amazing sweaters that Chris wears in this movie. You don’t want the sweater. You…

Amen to that. I have one son, and people used to always ask why we didn’t have more. I finally had enough, so I started responding “because my husband got diagnosed with colon cancer when I was six months pregnant and the chemo destroyed his ability to make sperm.” I get a morbid thrill from shutting people up this…

I’ve been watching kdramas lately and omg the sweater porn!!!! 

Pro tip: please don’t ask women why they don’t have kids, why they didn’t have more, or if they want more children. I experienced pregnancy loss and only told my immediate family. Since we have a young son, everyone feels entitled to ask me these questions. Since my miscarriage, I fumble through a vague deflection and…

Abortion is sad. Forcing a woman to give birth to and then raise a child she doesn’t want and may not be capable of raising is tragic.

I love your dad.

Well, when I’m looking for ‘manly men’, the cover of Vogue is definitely my first choice.

Seriously. Could QAnon focus on THIS instead of some mythical celebrity-run trafficking ring?

This is your weekly reminder that “Dr” Phil is not a real doctor but demands to be referred to as one.

From a friend on Instagram.

I realize that for most people, this is something that is so far out of reach right now, so in moments like these, I am humbly reminded of how privileged my life is. #thisis40

That’s “Amy Coathanger Barrett” to you.

Saturday, early voting begins in New York. I plan on going to vote with a mask on, probably with friends. I’ll have all day to stand in line and make it a celebration.

Ugh he continues to dominate the race for worst Chris. 

I’ll say that my Quebecoise wife found Bonjour Hi very funny.