I was just saying this to my husband, it’s not like it’s a secret. He’s just far from a hot commodity. 

Marilyn Manson never hid who he is, he just made it enough of his brand that it was easy to turn a blind eye.

Also worth noting just the sheer volume of dumb shit all of us say on a regular basis. My husband and I have a pact that when one of us has a really stupid thought we need to just tell the other one to admit it. For example the time I saw a horse statue and thought “that horse looks like a statue”.

It’s not shocking to me that you don’t know the difference between sex and gender, or that you think your Rachel Dolezal comparison is a slam dunk.

I support women, so no it’s not misogyny. You don’t get to - gasp - decide who is and isn’t a woman, go play genital police elsewhere. 

I love anytime I know that TERFs are having a bad day. 

I grew up Adventist, they definitely have some culty shit going on. 

He’s a year older than me?! It’s truly amazing what hate does to the human body. 

Yeah, no point in asking who the “our” in this statement refers to. 

I can’t pretend to be above enjoying the Qanon meltdowns but also eesh, this is so pathetically sad. They threw away their friends and family and jobs for this. 

Pretty much my late teens and early 20s were spent with middle aged guys. I thought it meant I was super special and mature because why else would a guy in his 30s want to date a 19 year old? I was pretty but not bright. 

Death of a Ladies’ Man is flawed but I love that album and Memories is an absolutely fantastic song and one of my top 3 Leonard Cohen songs. I will die on this hill.

I can’t believe (I can believe) that they thought they’d do their little insurrection and then just fly home to their Live Laugh Love pillows like it was no biggie. 

My husband has major depressive disorder and years ago he decided to stop taking his medication. Our relationship went from great to hanging by a thread in a matter of months. He’s been back on it since then and doing quite well, but I have immense empathy for people whose partners refuse their treatment in these…

It’s complicated, my mom is a challenging figure, but I worry that if I cut her off it would put my dad in an impossible spot. She also manages to be pretty controlling over my grandma, so when I want to see my grandma my mom is part of the package. 

This is great. 

Ah yes, his “comedic” persona which lead to him combatively replying to people and digging his heals in the whole time. Like I’ve gotten myself into trouble with a joke I thought was funny or a bit I thought was funny and it hasn’t landed. The appropriate thing to do is to be like “ok sorry, I was doing a bit and I…

That’s so shitty. I am still dealing with being labelled as lazy, because I couldn’t accomplish everything she wanted me to in a day plus school plus an after school job. I am on modified bed rest for a rough pregnancy right now and she was like “you must be enjoying yourself, you always hated work”. Great stuff! 

Oof yeah I feel this. More than once my husband has cut my mom off during a “cute” story to just be like “that actually sounds upsetting”. 

This is the kind of shit my mom would pull. Luckily my dad was there to put a swift end to situations like this. I can’t believe dude thought this was a heartwarming tale of him and not him teaching his daughter that she can’t count on him to help her.