Man, I keep remembering the days when the craziest woman in the House was Michelle Bachmann. The good ol’ days.

Bean’s comments are as ignorant as you’d expect form a privileged white male, who’s had a stellar career.

It took a mere 50 years after Marlon Brando spontaneously raped someone during a sex scene for the film industry to say maybe we should consider doing the bare minimum to protect actors and make them feel safe on set.

Tell it to Maria Schneider ya tool. 

Well, he’s definitely got confidence in himself.

One of my male co-workers is the embodiment of a loaf of stale white bread. He wants “a wife.” Never “a partner”... a wife. He has a subscription to every online dating platform and is *that guy* who continues to visit a bar alone because the 23 y/o bartender is pretty, thinking he has a shot with her because she’s…

If it’s any reassurance, most women aren’t disparaging “mediocre” men for having mediocre looks, intelligence, jobs, etc. The mediocrity we want to avoid is the historical mediocrity of men’s contribution to relationships. E.g., expecting the woman to be attuned and attentive to his needs and wants without trying to…

I mean, the problem with your approach is that you’re essentially talking about pretending to be someone else. You can’t pick 10-12 characteristics and “make” yourself have them if you don’t. All you can do is fake it, and women aren’t stupid. If, beneath the behavior, you don’t respect women/don’t like to…

I am the father of an adult daughter. I didn’t write this but I agree with it 100%

You could have 100 women write down 10 things they are looking for from their ideal partner, compile that data and create a list of 10 or 12 things that women are looking for, become the ideal embodiment of those things, make it your life’s work to make sure that you have those 10 or 12 characteristics, and you can…

“You could have 100 women write down 10 things they are looking for from their ideal partner, compile that data and create a list of 10 or 12 things that women are looking for, become the ideal embodiment of those things, make it your life’s work to make sure that you have those 10 or 12 characteristics, and you…

I watched the way my mother and aunts, who were independent and funny women, bent under their relationships with men and it forever skewed the way I view hetero relationships. I also found myself falling into that pattern when my mom died and I was trying to look after the family.

I’m not pulling him out of the greys but boy do you have a sad cucky-clucking troll down there. Personally, I think we should clone guys like you (with your consent) and have them teach classes, but what do I know? I’m just a woman, after all.

Yeah. I’m a woman, so I never did that whole scrounge-for-Dad’s-old-Playboys thing that boys had to do before the internet. But that seemed ok and healthy curiosity about sex to me; a few naked pictures weren’t going to kill anybody. But there have been a few articles in the Guardian over the last couple of years about…

Not for nothing, but expectations for childcare alone perfectly demonstrate how men are “mediocre.” Guy gets a standing ovation for picking up his child from school and “babysitting” while mom is out. MOM is the one that likely had to tell him to pick up the kid and schedule pickup privileges with the school- and if…

This is exactly right. The guys who throw themselves at you and make it easy are, by and large, totally gross. You gotta hunt for that diamond if you’re a woman, and it’s a hell of a lot more effort than most guys are willing to put in.

I can’t believe 15 years of pretty much unfettered teenage access to hardcore porn has resulted in men who don’t know how to be in healthy relationships.

“Matos says he regularly holds roundtable-like discussions with women ages 25 to 45, and hears that they “prefer men who are emotionally available, good communicators, and share similar values.”

I dated a lot before I got married.

Step one for lonely men is to get off of dating apps. Those things are designed to keep you single, full stop. Every single one of them. The companies behind them don’t make money if they are actually effectively matching people together. Men make up more of the online dating population, so you already start behind,…