Toxic is toxic and it knows no gender. It would also be helpful to folks if you also include the response where the commenter agreed that women too can and have partaken in the same type of activities.

How can you call B.S. on something you don’t watch?

No one moved the goalposts. I find it funny that you’re acting like it’s off limits to you. Does this mean the Mona Scott and Real Housewives tv shows are perfect displays of toxic femininity?

Are you reading my comments or are you just looking to respond???

“That sounds a lot like, “let’s call it racism but not associate it with white people.”

If you’ve read any of my comments up and down this post, I’ve been consistent when I’ve said there are a certain set of tools (fear, intimidation, killing, sexuality, bluntness, charm, etc) that folks can use to obtain and maintain power and influence. I call BS on the notion that certain tools are off limits to…

I’m not talking about capacity; I’m talking about use of a tool, (fear, intimidation, death, sexuality, etc.) to obtain and retain power and influence.

I named three real women; do some recon on Queen Mary I.

“In that particular situation, he put proving how “strong” he was over saving her life.”

“male culture incentivizes and celebrates their use.”

“T’Challa only has eyes for Nakia.”

Toxic Masculinity gets associated with men because you often see men attempting to gain power and influence but folks act is if the same tools are not used my women.

The throne room was decorated with wooden sticks and tofu can’t keep you warm in the mountains.

Please share with us how this is misogynistic when there have been men through history that have been disposed of by men and women leaders????

Initally her objectives were in conflict with the nation. N’Jobu’s objectives were also in conflict with Wakanda.

“Isn’t “the system’ the means by which power is acquired?”

Let’s call it toxic and not associate it with men.

Your response doesn’t really address the main issue in play here. Yes Nakia wanted to see Wakanda help the world. Yes her proposed implementation of how to help was different than Killmongers. However, her full participation as an equal, which she already was, does not mean that T’Challa has to act upon her…

is it the system or the methods some use to advance in the system?