I’m genuinely curious but a bit confused by your diagram. Does the light blue heart at the top have two partners who each have three partners (with one in common) giving him/her five metamours? How many partners does top right dark blue have? Five? The purples just have one partner?

It wasn’t an accusation that the movie was going after black people. Someone noted that there seemed to be more violence around black deaths and asked if there was an intentional message. If there was some sort of social commentary then it wouldn’t be going after black people, right? The response wasn’t that there…

I’ve been mistaken for my husband’s daughter a few times. We’re only a year apart so I have to tamper my happy dance since he’s all “how old do they think I am”.

I’m a night owl and I wish there was a way to sort comments to appear by most recent. Do I just not know how to do that or is it a design flaw? Maybe intentional by design? Will anyone even see this as I’m a gray night owl? Does a tree make a sound...Are there gray trees? Side note, gray or grey? I should go to bed.

So neither your boyfriend or your roomie’s boyfriend pay rent or have jobs? So if it was just you and a roommate (not taking care of two guys) would you still feel you needed more personal space? Or if your boyfriend found a job would you want to stay in the city you’re in and move into a new place together? If no to…

I disagree with some of the other responses. Unless he has a spouse taking care of him or some other benefactor then he’s likely already been hitting up folks for help. His bank account is empty and he just decided about school so there’s no financial aid check in the mail...seems like he should’ve sucked it up…

I remember reading about exit polls that said 20% of Trump voters believed slaves should have never been freed and 40% wish the south had won the civil war. So maybe 20-40 percent of Trump voters think I should be a slave. Sometimes it just makes me angry and want to engage in protests and what not but sometimes it’s…

Me pulling my hair up, which usually just means I’m wearing a hat, has caused me to get pulled over numerous times to just be waived off with no explanation. Like they were looking for black males and it wasn’t worth making up an excuse for why I was stopped.

Professional googler is the lord’s work and I salute you comrade.

Your name is the perfect response to your situation...hoegoodlord. May the force be with you.

You know what’s really sad? I don’t know what you’re talking about.

Your little one comment made me think of sports fandom. I’m a Redskins football fan, which I pretty much inherited from childhood. Now that I’m older and understand the game more I recognize that the team really hasn’t been that great during my adult fandom (past 15 years or so). Sometimes they’re slightly above…

Uniform policy or gym class?

It was totally worth it.

Your comment just hit my heart. It so clearly and logically expressed my fear of losing competent people in essential positions who actually put integrity over politics. Yet I can imagine the holes the Don and his admin would poke in what seems so reasonable. I can imagine finding myself in Trump supporters’ comments…

It’s so bizarre, especially considering it’s a replacement that would be under some extra scrutiny.

Oprah, Obummer, Michael, Martin, and Luther King

Wow. That is a great factoid that I’ll share for black history month. Thank you.

If the police were killing gay people, including gay youth, and werent prosecuted or even fired...in addition to targeting areas where gay people congregate to lock them up for minor infractions...never mind

Shutting down the government would mean the scientists and doctors that deal with responding to outbreaks are shut down. People who process fafsa applications and social security checks would be at home. A week or two might be bothersome, longer than that could be catastrophic.