Let it go. The guy's a jerk, but you don't have to live with him.

It is not rude to ignore it. They are spamming you — THAT is rude.

Turn down the raise.

When it's fresh from the shower, don't towel-dry it. Let it drip dry.

Do what's right for YOU and your family. I co-slept all my kids and it was great for us. My SILs did Ferber and it was great for them. Every child is different, too, so what's good for one might not be good for the next.

No one's demonizing HIV+ people. Just the ones who don't disclose their status.

What an ugly situation! That woman is a predator.

if your mutual friends are wonderful people, they won't immediately take her side for trying to get your job!

You don't need that. I wouldn't make any grand exit speech - just fade away.

If you trust your boyfriend, it doesn't matter WHAT she does. She could whisper filthy things in his ear and strip down to nothing, and if he doesn't want to fuck her, he won't.

I knew a woman like this - my friend's mom. She just died from cirrhosis.

My husband started his own business and I helped bankroll and run it for a while. It was a great learning experience and when it was time to fold it up, about 5 years later, he did it without much regret or shame. Our needs as a family changed, the market changed, things changed. He's happy with a big firm now, where…

Yup. It was awesome, no regrets, happily married 12 years. We did a quickie ceremony with a non-religious officiant, a champagne lunch at a nearby bistro for family only, glorious honeymoon in Paris. I loooooved my wedding. No stress.

There are MANY children available for adoption. Many are older and brown, though.

That is disgusting.

Some people *would* abort a baby for being the wrong gender. Lots of them do. And a woman I know told me that if there were a test to determine a fetus's sexual orientation, she'd abort a potentially homosexual fetus even if it were otherwise healthy.

I am DYING over here. You are the best. The very best.

Oh, haha, vaginas are just so funny. Hahaha. They're so gross and mysterious and let's publish a book about our ignorance and distaste for them. That is so fucking funny. Vaginas. Haha.

It just makes me sad that Christian Dior created exquisite, EXQUISITE, beautifully-designed and -crafted pieces of art and this bullshit is what's associated with his name now. I feel the same way about many of the classic design houses now. Don't get me started on Chanel.

So pretty. Who makes them? Where can I find them? Are they street shoes that look like toe shoes?